Yeah I think you can Nola - Lifes about phases and changes and moving from one thing to another experiencing different stuff. You are what you are only at any given moment in time. Tomorrow...You may feel differently.
Hey DG,
I think that this raises a rather interesting aspect of sexuality, sexual appetite and mood.
I myself am decidedly Bi, but it is something that I have thought about for a long time.
Your sexual appetite is something, which as a woman, and I'm not discounting the men here, is very subject to mood, atmosphere and frame of mind. Women are different sexual beings to men, and we naturally find other women more appealing than men do men naturally.
"This provides further support for the notion that female sexuality is relatively fluid and that the distinction between lesbian and bisexual women is not a rigid one," Diamond said.
There have been varied and interesting reports and discussions about sexuality, but as a Bi woman I think that it's not something which is fixed. It's a transient thing. I don't like labels and why if you occasionally want to kiss a woman or enter into 'soft' play with one do you have to attribute the label of being Bi to yourself?
Sex is all about the mind for most of us and what is visually or mentally appealing one day will not be so attractive the next, as our sexual appetite and consequent desires are transient, sometimes fleeting and usually circumspect and dependant upon the mood, the place and the people.
I wouldn't worry about it, some days I like tall men, some days I like 'fem' women, other days I want cock, some days I want a big hard trans and others I want my rabbit, it's all part of a fun sexual spectrum.
I'm always much more entertained and interested when people are happy to be fluid.
I think if one were to look at 'categories' that 'bi curious' is a good one, it generally means that you like a little 'soft play', for me that means nothing below the belt. A woman's pussy is a scary thing for the uninitiated, and taking that out of the equation can make for some sexual fun.
Starting to ramble, but I think you get the gist.
Don't worry about it, don't label yourself and just enjoy whatever you fancy as and when the mood strikes you?
Amber x
Maybe you need to have some 3some fun, then you get the best of both worlds.
I'm quite happy to help you out in at least trying out this theory once or thrice, we just need to find an interested lady that doesn't tick too many boxes on your 'i'm a picky bint, so she's a no' list :rascal:
Godamnit!!! You could have warned me lol. We've just come back from honeymoon raring to go and now theres one less fish in the sea so to speak.
Wanders off mumbling about missed opportunities.....
*Her*
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