Good at sex????

Quote by Phire
I reckon I'm pretty good at sex. For me the greatest pleasure is how pleased I am with myself when I make a girl cum.
The best is when you know someone enough to know what they like. Last night I had sex with an ex from a few years ago who is now a close friend. We know pretty much everything about each other. What we have come to realise more recently is how dominant I like to be and how submissive she likes to be. You have to have real trust to abuse or be abused in the way we like it. Anyway, we were basically at it all night last night until she could hardly move, she was just kind of shaking and twitching, I still hadn't cum by this point and she wasn't in a position to give me a BJ or anything so I didn't cum until after I'd slept and she'd gone. Got a text off her today saying that last night was the best sex she'd had in years, if not ever. That text gave me real deep sexual satisfaction.

Quote by onlyme1981
In my opinion good sex is only good when you're both enjoying it.
I have no idea if I'm "good" or not, I'd rather not ask myself that question as I'd invariably end up never having sex again if I thought about it too much and came to an eventual answer..... That made sense to me
I have confidence issues, lots of people out there do. Sometimes I'll be too shy to initiate something but that doesn't mean I'm not trying to please the other person.
I love giving pleasure to someone whether it be by a touch in a special place or something else...I like knowing I can give enjoyment but I don't think about it too much and I never "big myself up".
I know I'm not the best shag out there, nor do I want to be - it'd just get boring then as I'd have nothing else to learn.
I've had some quite rubbish sex in the past and I still sometimes feel it was my fault, maybe I should have done this or that but at the end of the day I've learnt from those experiences and while I can't say I'm completely "issue" free I definitely think good sex is all about communication, letting yourself go and wanting to please the other person.

Quote by MikeC
in my opionon i feel that i am a "crap" shag. This is to do with
1) I dont have a lot of self confidence
2) I always analise people and things....
Personally i have found people have not said i am crap but i like to know where i am going wrong and where to improve. If i take a step back i have improved greatly since i first joined SH.
MikeC

Quote by Happy Cats
In my opinion good sex is only good when you're both enjoying it.
I have no idea if I'm "good" or not, I'd rather not ask myself that question as I'd invariably end up never having sex again if I thought about it too much and came to an eventual answer..... That made sense to me
I have confidence issues, lots of people out there do. Sometimes I'll be too shy to initiate something but that doesn't mean I'm not trying to please the other person.
I love giving pleasure to someone whether it be by a touch in a special place or something else...I like knowing I can give enjoyment but I don't think about it too much and I never "big myself up".
I know I'm not the best shag out there, nor do I want to be - it'd just get boring then as I'd have nothing else to learn.
I've had some quite rubbish sex in the past and I still sometimes feel it was my fault, maybe I should have done this or that but at the end of the day I've learnt from those experiences and while I can't say I'm completely "issue" free I definitely think good sex is all about communication, letting yourself go and wanting to please the other person.

Quote by devondelight
Well sod the I'm a great shag brigade and the I'm a crap shag brigade .. if you want to know how I shag you will just have to shag me won't you
:69: :hump:
DD