Hi there guys and gals
Just logging in one last time to say goodbye.
Griff and I have split up. That shouldn't be a surprise to those who read my last thread.
I am still totally gutted but was expecting it. He seems to have gone back to his ex wife (mother of his two children) and I cant really be upset with that as I really think families should be together. However it leaves me with a broken heart and two years of memories to sit and mope about.
Griff was the only reason I got back into swinging, I had done it before but had stopped as my sex drive went into hibernation. Griff woke up both my sex drive and my whole life. At the moment I cant even bring myself to touch myself let alone touch anyone else sexually so the swinging sceen is definately out.
As we work together we have decided to be very adult about it and stay friends which is both a good and bad thing. I cant imagine him not being in my life but everytime I have to talk to him my heart shatters into even smaller pieces.
Since we broke up I haven't been able to keep food down - its a great way to lose weight but now I have everyone in work assuming I am pregnant and wondering who the daddy is!! (We kept our relationship quiet as it is kind of frowned apon in work to date collegues). I may head to the doctors soon about it but I don't partiually want them to just prescribe me tablets saying I am depressed I would rather work through it myself - I would ask for suggestions but I am not sure I will log on to check for replies.
I just want finish off by saying a big thank you to all of you. For the time I have been on these boards I have had allot of support and allot of laughs. I will miss you all.
Bye bye
Katy
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Not sure if you'll read this or not but ... Sorry things haven't worked out for you Katy, hope that you do manage to work through it all yourself eventually but don't be too proud to ask for help or advice if you need it. Sometimes just having someoneto talk to helps.
take care
Alleyson xxx
take care
Alleyson xxx
Sorry to hear your relationship hasn't worked. 
As others have said the Cafe is a place that just can be about helping you out.
Although I haven't been here long, I have seen there are lots of people always willing to lend an ear, cheer people, or just give a shoulder to cry on.
Wishing you all the best for the near & distant future.
Talismaniac
As others have said the Cafe is a place that just can be about helping you out.
Although I haven't been here long, I have seen there are lots of people always willing to lend an ear, cheer people, or just give a shoulder to cry on.
Wishing you all the best for the near & distant future.
Talismaniac
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Chin up hunni. It will get better. Just give it time.
I hope we'll see you in here again before long.
I hope we'll see you in here again before long.
Katy I don't know you but your symptoms are universal,please don't feel as though you have to cope on your own,if you have considered not going to the doctor then it was a consideration at least, one way or the other, you mentioned depression ....the skills we have in life for dusting ours selves off are diminished at times like these and a little help my be required ,your resilience my be consumed with emotion and if you feel you my need help then get it worked for me ..... believe me
