greedy or not

30 Jun 2005

Right where do i begin. After going to a swingers club a while back on my own (daytime). I found myself having the best fun in years. I had the pick of the guys as i was the only fem there lol redface

. how would i ask a guy to go in with me next time but still want to shag lots as to of course i wouldent leave him out is that greedy or selfish please let me know Then i wont offend anyone i ask lol xx

30 Jun 2005

Quote by debz4u
how would i ask a guy to go in with me next time but still want to shag lots as well.

There is a whole site full of guys here that would accompany you or am i being stupid ? dunno

Quote by debz4u
Him to of course i wouldent leave him out is that greedy or selfish please let me know Then i wont offend anyone i ask lol xx

We would hope you wouldnt leave him out lol, and no its not greedy imho go for it debz4u :twisted:

30 Jun 2005

Just tell him how it is Debz.
That you would like his company but that you want to have some extra fun once inside the club. I very much doubt anyone would refuse on those terms.

30 Jun 2005

Quote by Nomad_Soul
Just tell him how it is Debz.
That you would like his company but that you want to have some extra fun once inside the club. I very much doubt anyone would refuse on those terms.

I agree with what nomad_soul said.
has long has he knows upfront then go for it.
its not being greedy, have fun biggrin

30 Jun 2005

it may be greedy but i agree say up front and go for it smile

after all ur there to enjy urself
matt

30 Jun 2005

say it as it is i want to play ,,with others as well as you are you cool with it ?
sorted

30 Jun 2005

nope not being greedy at all lol
tho i have 2 be honest i used to advertise for guys to go to clubs with and as a rule they don't like u playing with lots of single guys most expect u to find cplz with them or single woman, which is why i stopped meeting guys 2 go to clubs with its much more fun on ur own.
One time this guy picked me up and took me to a local club and cause i wouldn't go to a room with a cpl he liked her left me there to walk home confused

(was the last single guy i met 4 some reason lol) the problem is going with someone u don't know that well u may not like the same people
I find most single men will say whatever u want 2 hear to get in the club with u but once ur inside its another story

30 Jun 2005

Quote by debz4u
Right where do i begin. After going to a swingers club a while back on my own (daytime). I found myself having the best fun in years. I had the pick of the guys as i was the only fem there lol . how would i ask a guy to go in with me next time but still want to shag lots as to of course i wouldent leave him out is that greedy or selfish please let me know Then i wont offend anyone i ask lol xx

No it's not greedy, it's common sense wink

I suppose it would be polite of you to tell any guy you take in what you plan to do so there is no misunderstanding, then it is his own fault if he gets offended as you have been honest lol

30 Jun 2005

Quote by debz4u
Right where do i begin. After going to a swingers club a while back on my own (daytime). I found myself having the best fun in years. I had the pick of the guys as i was the only fem there lol . how would i ask a guy to go in with me next time but still want to shag lots as to of course i wouldent leave him out is that greedy or selfish please let me know Then i wont offend anyone i ask lol xx

Sounds like what I do all the time :twisted:

30 Jun 2005

Hi debz i don,t think you,re being greedy i agree with what everyone else has said whoever you invite in has to understand that you want to play some more with others later , Go for it lol

30 Jun 2005

Go to a greedy girls night.
And see if you really are greedy.

30 Jun 2005

no problem doing that with most blokes I would have thought.
You can certainly rely on me not to object if u want to give it a go.
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30 Jun 2005

Quote by debz4u
Right where do i begin. After going to a swingers club a while back on my own (daytime). I found myself having the best fun in years. I had the pick of the guys as i was the only fem there lol . how would i ask a guy to go in with me next time but still want to shag lots as to of course i wouldent leave him out is that greedy or selfish please let me know Then i wont offend anyone i ask lol xx

Make sure he's bi and you can both have a lot of fun wink

30 Jun 2005

nothing greedy about that debz, you go enjoy yourself wink

im sure the lucky bloke wouldnt complain if as others have said you explain first :wink:

30 Jun 2005

so far you all sound positive thanks worship

30 Jun 2005

Tell them intimacy is not a pie. You can be close with someone and it doesnt mean you have less for someone else. Thats the whole idea isnt it?
Well upto a point anyway - until you get lockjaw or blisters. :twisted:

30 Jun 2005

Diffiently not greedy, just a big appetite....
I say go for it,but i would tell the guy up front!!
But im sure as u are soooo "Greedy" u could wear him out first then move on to your next prey....lol
biggrin

:D

30 Jun 2005

:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I agree with the rest, as long as I was told up front what to expect then I would be cool with it. Honesty is the best policy and if he gets upset thats his problem not yours.
:bounce: GO FOR IT GIRL :bounce:
:twisted: Taff666 :twisted:

30 Jun 2005

I find most single men will say whatever u want 2 hear to get in the club with u but once ur inside its another story

Oh that is so depressing!!!! What hope do I have? That's just not how it should be. People are with people for lots of reasons but it should never be as a quick fix or short cut. Hate lack of reapect.
<---- getting down from soap box now

30 Jun 2005

I find most single men will say whatever u want 2 hear to get in the club with u but once ur inside its another story

Oh that is so depressing!!!! What hope do I have? That's just not how it should be. People are with people for lots of reasons but it should never be as a quick fix or short cut. Hate lack of reapect.
<---- getting down from soap box now

1 Jul 2005

If you go with a guy who understands the scene, then they'll understand what you want and why.
Why not pick one of the guys on here who says it's no problem & then tell us all if they let you down! LOL
Good luck whatever route you take

1 Jul 2005

The other thing is Debz, you could always go with another single fem so you've got someone to walk in with and have a de-brief with but have lots of fun with the guys too! Perfect solution! (I'm available!!!)

1 Jul 2005

How come all the beautiful bbw ladies seem to be over the pennines from me? No fair!

1 Jul 2005

ermm not sure andy but its not that far to travel im sure you would be welcome if you ventured over the hill xx

1 Jul 2005

hiya debs
and im free anytime to goto a club just need a lift smile

jo xxxx

1 Jul 2005

Hay jo i went today wowwwwww so much fun i dident leave till closing time hehe redface