Sorry - but it pisses me off!!
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Grrrrrrrr.. complaint about 1liner wanna shag PM's
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In a word? YES!
My signature for a long time was "i'm not looking" but they still try.
i don't mind if they're pleasant but when you get some dick who types in text-speak asking you to cam - twice! (grrrrrrrr - you know who you are!) or the basic "I wanna fuck your arse" .. well, it can get a little tedious...
My signature for a long time was "i'm not looking" but they still try.
i don't mind if they're pleasant but when you get some dick who types in text-speak asking you to cam - twice! (grrrrrrrr - you know who you are!) or the basic "I wanna fuck your arse" .. well, it can get a little tedious...
Quote by Lazeeboy
So you're a bit miffed then?
LB - you know I don't mind single guys PM-ing me. I get a lot of Pm's from single guys - and I am flattered. Honestly I am. But it's the one liners that DO piss me off. I personally think twice before PM-ing anyone. Most of what I have to say I'll day in open forum - but yes - some chats are for PM.
But to PM me with no introduction just asking if I "want a bit of action tonight" - or "want to watch him wank on Cam" - THOSE are the PM's that piss me off.
So yeas - a bit miffed.
Can you tell I've had a bad day? :shock:
then reply :twisted: 
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Sex God
Quote by Rainbows
Can you tell I've had a bad day? :shock:
Sorry to hear you've had a rotten day, Rainbows - just think of the weekend..it's started now.
Try and forget the tossers....Take care
Mike.
Sex God
Yep and I get pissed off with the odd pm's that I sometimes get.............like the guy who wanted me to hit his penis with stinging nettles
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I get these all the time. Had one today in fact.
Had an email as well - a reply to my ad "Couples looking for bi-fems" - from a single guy who wanted to cam!
I'm like "and what part of NO SINGLE MALES! did you not understand?"
And why are you even IN the section "couples looking for women?
Learn to fucking read and don't waste people's time!
I had an invite to an "orgy" in Bristol a while back to which I asked for more info and was then asked "would I like to be the only girl there?"
I was then told it was him and his mate - both 9 inches of course - and one other guy.
I said an orgy was supposed to be some couples or at least a few girls as well.
Suddenly he has a 21 year old blonde size 10 girl with D cup "just confirmed".
Oh and my husband is "welcome to come as well"!
What is it with these losers?
Rachel
Had an email as well - a reply to my ad "Couples looking for bi-fems" - from a single guy who wanted to cam!
I'm like "and what part of NO SINGLE MALES! did you not understand?"
And why are you even IN the section "couples looking for women?
Learn to fucking read and don't waste people's time!
I had an invite to an "orgy" in Bristol a while back to which I asked for more info and was then asked "would I like to be the only girl there?"
I was then told it was him and his mate - both 9 inches of course - and one other guy.
I said an orgy was supposed to be some couples or at least a few girls as well.
Suddenly he has a 21 year old blonde size 10 girl with D cup "just confirmed".
Oh and my husband is "welcome to come as well"!
What is it with these losers?
Rachel
Sex God
Quote by Rainbows
Does anybody else out there get really pissed off with PM's from people who haven't read your profile, when you have one for that purpose, - and should be posting their requests in "lets meet" anyway.
Sorry - but it pisses me off!!
ahem
I sometimes get exasperated by some of the assumptions people make in their unsolicited PMs, but mostly I enjoy receiving them, even if I'm not interested in who sent them. To be honest, I haven't looked at my own profile lately and don't know what it says about me. Probably not a lot. You will always get chancers throwing mud in all directions hoping some of it will stick, and no, they won't read your profile. Unfortunately it goes with the territory and I think you just have to learn to ignore it.
Ice xx
Sex God
Quote by chick0074
Ice,
Your profile says:
"I'm male 41 and single and you're welcome to PM me for a chinwag"
That might explain it!
Rachel
You'd be amazed what people evidently read into the word "chinwag" :lol2:
The ones that piss me off are the ones that pm and I send them a nice, no thak you replay, then 2 days later they send the same pm and i reply nicely again and a day latter i get the same pm (at this stage i stop replying). Ad ays latter i get the same pm and a day after taht.........................................................................you get the pic!!
Quote by foxylady 123
The ones that piss me off are the ones that pm and I send them a nice, no thak you replay, then 2 days later they send the same pm and i reply nicely again and a day latter i get the same pm (at this stage i stop replying). Ad ays latter i get the same pm and a day after taht.........................................................................you get the pic!!
Poor you!! No I don't get those thank goodness. But then i think I am quite rude in my initial reponse. That generally goes against the grain - but i just can't be bothered.
Okay - so when i posted this last night I was admittedly not in the best of moods - but I still feel that I would prefer not to receive PM's with that sort of request. Having siad that - I realise I don't actually state that on my profile. so do I really have cause to complain?
(Ps - I changed the thread name as I agree with what somebody said about it in another thread.)
Mod
If you are getting unsolicited and repeated PM's, you can report them to us Mods, hopefully with an example of what they have sent. If it's just annoying, ie same thing repeatedly, we can have a word. If it gets abusive, we can ban them. If we don't know, we can't do anything and you will just have to stay annoyed whilst we stay blissfully unaware!! 
Mal
Mal
Sex God
very very pissed off by the pms and emails we have a couple of adds but one f2f and we still get emails and pms saying" i know your looking for a fem but do want my c**k " we went to a social and never even spoke to a certain person then next thing we know we get a pm asking can he do this and that ,or one where we asked if people wanted to meet up in a pub then go to a club then we get a pm from a male saying "love to meet up with you guys and have sex with you 2" thats what i call desterate people who dont even realize they show themselves up
Quote by mal609
If you are getting unsolicited and repeated PM's, you can report them to us Mods, hopefully with an example of what they have sent. If it's just annoying, ie same thing repeatedly, we can have a word. If it gets abusive, we can ban them. If we don't know, we can't do anything and you will just have to stay annoyed whilst we stay blissfully unaware!!
I would have no hesitation in reporting a repeat offender to a mod - but to be honest - I don't have the repeat problem and think that reporting each irritating "wanna shag" PM would just be a waste of mod time.
Mod
Well, honey - you know we're there if you need us!
Mal
Mal
yeah i agree on this, i only just joined and i got 10 pms some were decent just welcoming and offering advice but most of them were wanna cam or can i join u n a 3some type thingon about straight to the point ,
then i set little miss 2 hot up an account and wait for it..........
...she had 33 pms all sayin the same thing (so i feel for u ladies) lets cam or huge cock here waiting, jeez lets get to know each other first or am i just being silly?
or maybe jealous cos she got more than me :cry:
then i set little miss 2 hot up an account and wait for it..........
...she had 33 pms all sayin the same thing (so i feel for u ladies) lets cam or huge cock here waiting, jeez lets get to know each other first or am i just being silly?
or maybe jealous cos she got more than me :cry:
Sex God
As a tip for anyone lurking, please pick a name that suggests your sex or sexuality.
I didn't and now (occasionally) get "chancer" PMs astking me to do a variety of things, some I've never even heard of
:? and some to things I thought you had to have a special licence to keep in this country... :shock: 
There's a LOTof very strange folk out there with FARRRRRRR too much spare time in which to construct their fantasies. :shock:
CQ..... lovely new avatar BTW.. :thumbup:
I didn't and now (occasionally) get "chancer" PMs astking me to do a variety of things, some I've never even heard of
:? and some to things I thought you had to have a special licence to keep in this country... :shock: There's a LOTof very strange folk out there with FARRRRRRR too much spare time in which to construct their fantasies. :shock:
CQ..... lovely new avatar BTW.. :thumbup:
We, like most couples get a huge number of " I want to shag you up the arse " PMs, despite having a fairly detailed profile and linked advert.
The simple solution is put in the advert or profile " one liners will be deleted" and then press DELETE. It works for us
It also works for guys who catch our attention we have met with about 10 guys for clubbing and threesomes.
Love
Jackie and Ben
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The simple solution is put in the advert or profile " one liners will be deleted" and then press DELETE. It works for us
It also works for guys who catch our attention we have met with about 10 guys for clubbing and threesomes.
Love
Jackie and Ben
xxxxxxxx
Sex God
Quote by Mark
..................... I believe easybiguy is still available.
Frankly I'm shocked .... :shock: (told you I was shocked).
I thought all the biguy monicas had gone...
Got me thinking now......... :? what about easynineinches4u?
*goes off to have a think*
