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Just for information the resord so far is seven answers to any one going to bed question ( not counting sarcasm and the end bit where it wanders off topic) biggrin
So I was sitting in the traffic on the way home listening to a facinating ( if slightly pretentious) debate regarding genetic engineering and the predetermination of babies gender or worse hair/eye colour etc. Dont worry its not a genetics question , as I dont believe SH is quite the place and it would be just a tad off topic.
It got me to thinking though . As always the programme had guests of both opposing views - and equally as always one of the prevailing ways that the 'pro' guests argued their point was that the subject was becoming more and more popular and less and less stigmatised . It often irritates me that people use this kind of non-arguament to try and stress a point . Then I got in and read a couple of the more serious threads recently on here and I saw a similar kind of justification used very commonly in many of them .
So my question is as follows . Just because a practice in society becomes more common and less criticised by society in general - and enough people start to indulge in the practice , whatever it may be, does it make it right ? Or does it just make it acceptable ? Is there a difference between something being enjoyable and desirable and something that simply doesnt make sense ultimately for our welfare as individuals or as a society ?
G'Night all
Peace
G xx
I don't think that just because society accepts something, it has to be right. Society is constantly changing, and standards will change. Ask yourself this question, if sometime in the future abusing of children became popular, would that make it right?
I know that I used an extreme example, but you get my drift?
It's like the sexualisation of young girls - thongs with Eat Me on them and midriffs showing a la Britney....just because children are dressing like teenagers doesnt make it right. Acceptable to some parents perhaps, but not right.
It is a difficult one. On one hand if an activity that harms no-one is deemed at one point to be unacceptable but over time more and more people end up doing it and it becomes acceptable (like sex before marriage, for instance) then the change in attitudes does make it more 'right' and allows fewer people to disagree with it on the grounds of 'it isn't done like that in our society'. If, on the other hand, the activity is actually or potentially damaging (such as abuse of children) then its popularity does not justify it.
I think that essentially the popularity or acceptability of an activity is not grounds alone for justifying it being carried out. It may form a small part of the argument in favour of its existance but the activity alone should be examined on its merits and drawbacks. After all, there are plenty of people that woud claim a swinging relationship is damaging to children and the fabric of society, even if people like us do not see it that way.
I don’t think it becomes right. it becomes acceptable because it cannot be controlled
Absolutely not. We should all be open to pulling back from damaging trends, else Chavs are here to stay :shock:
The `popular` argument doesn`t hold water on it`s own.
Venusxxx
Veejay – In response to your extreme example, would the majority of society know the action was wrong if it was accepted by the majority. An example would be eating meat, I know its not as extreme as your example, but with a large majority of the population finding this acceptable isn't it to them 'right' ?
Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, are these not just individual beliefs that when agreed upon by the majority, become societies norms ?
How can you categorise for everyone what is 'right' ?
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How can you categorise for everyone what is 'right' ?

Easy. Ask Venus :mrgreen:
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How can you categorise for everyone what is 'right' ?

Easy. Ask Venus :mrgreen:
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Venus. Am I right?
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How can you categorise for everyone what is 'right' ?

Easy. Ask Venus :mrgreen:
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I may regret this but here goes......
Venus - What is right ? wink
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Venus. Am I right?

No
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Venus - What is right ? wink

I am
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Venus - What is right ? wink
I am
Venusxxx

Thanks for sorting that out for me, I feel alot better now biggrin