Quote by Reese
Then again, I can also understand the possibility of a single individual - be they male or female - being attracted specifically to couples in order to participate intimately within their relationship to each other. That's one I've never seen a designated label for, but I'm sure it exists as I could imagine myself in that position if I were a single person.
Not just a possibility - most certainly a reality. I have tried to explain it before, both to myself and others - but could never find the right words to express my meaning clearly enough. I have been asked why I won't consider "makeshift" couples in my "play", because surely if I am bi then it should make no difference whether the couple I am with are in a strong, committed relationship, or merely a man and a woman in the same bed with me. But to me is does make a difference. A "makeshift" couple is two singles (in my eyes) and it just doesn't have the same "effect" on me as being a part of the intimacy of the comitted couple. I have chosen not to analyse this too much - and just accept that that is what I enjoy and that is what i joined SH to explore further. I don't have a label for that - and I kind of don't want or need to label myself.