GUYS who fail to turn up

4 Feb 2007

Hi
We organised a night last night at ours for 2 greedy girls who love to see guys.
We had got 8 guys to come over, M had chatted on the phone with them all & all said they'd love to come over n play with the girls.
So both girls got there sexy gear on looking forward to & for the fun to start.
Now you know what comming now guess how many turned up 2 , no calls or texts to say they can't make it mad

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It just makes you think why do some guys do this, you see so many posts in the forum asking if theres any genuine cpls meeting guys out there.
Yes there are, but now were starting to think are any guys out there who are genuine.
confused

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4 Feb 2007

There are genuine guys, you've just got to know or sort the wheat from the chaff, so to speak.

4 Feb 2007

Quote by Darkfire
Kudos to the two who did then eh? :thumbup:
unfortunately its a fact of life that many people get off on just thinking about it and the motions of planning it, with no intention of turning up :sad: but those are the few who spoil it for the rest
next time perhaps consider guys you already know & who will feel some sense of comeback if they dont turn up, strangers in LMU quite simply dont have that concern

Nail & head....

4 Feb 2007

Kudos to the two who did then eh? :thumbup:
unfortunately its a fact of life that many people get off on just thinking about it and the motions of planning it, with no intention of turning up :sad: but those are the few who spoil it for the rest poke

next time perhaps consider guys you already know & who will feel some sense of comeback if they dont turn up, strangers in LMU quite simply dont have that concern wink

4 Feb 2007

I'm very sorry to hear your news. Yes there are badns on this site. A few days ago I recieved a wink from the female of a couple but who had no profile text or pics, so I replied asking how I interested them...
The reply I had was so OTT in sexual content I'm sure it was just a guy pretending to be a couple. I asked that they post pic and profile text up, not heard anything since. They joined Jan 2007.
My advice creampie girls is you need to spend more time via email i.e. 1 week + to judge if they really seem genuine. If they are genuine, they may put more effort into their writing. Also if you build up a network of swinging friends in your area, you will have trusted men to call on next time. Only wish I didn't live so far from you. wink

4 Feb 2007

Hey dark, I'm phsycic look, I quoted you before you wrote... or maybe I've got premature ejaculation lol

4 Feb 2007

Varca I have just posted 3 posts above yours, and if 20 did show, you could always do an X-factor talent test on them and keep the best ones?

4 Feb 2007

hiya
i had a meet weds afternoon just gone
4 out of 12 guys showed up sad

time wasters hey
hey but life goes on lol
jo x

4 Feb 2007

Quote by varca
Ohhh just thought... what if all 20 turned up? :eeek:

no worries there Varca , THAT just wouldnt happen lol

4 Feb 2007

trouble is, those guys not showing up reflects badly on the rest of us who are reliable mad

4 Feb 2007

You might want to change your avatar creampiegirls confused

4 Feb 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
You might want to change your avatar creampiegirls

was just thinking the same thing it wasnt there the first time i read the thread. :shock:

4 Feb 2007

ditto - it wasnt there earlier...
but, as much as its against the rules, its a very good flipa

at those who didnt bother turning up, isnt it? lol

4 Feb 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
You might want to change your avatar creampiegirls

I removed it for them!
rolleyes

4 Feb 2007

Its all part of swinging, you are always going to get no shows and its not just men i have had couples not show as well, you just have to put it down to one of them things and either move onto the next meet or stop meeting smile

Personally i think the reson why a lot of singles dont show is cause they are married and can't make it last min due to the wife/hubby (see i'm not sexist lol) not being where they expected them to be at that time lol
As for why couples do it, well maybe for the reason above if they just swingimng partner, if they 'real' couples not got a clue dunno

I think some people genuinly just bottle ot when it comes to the crunch, if they first timers the though may seem so much better than the reality when they faced with it and they may feel daft calling you up 2 tell you that so think its just best to hide and hope noone notices lol

4 Feb 2007

i will always turn up if i said i would. just never been invited yet redface

4 Feb 2007

Part of swinging i'm afraid. If at first you don't succeed, try again.

4 Feb 2007

I acknowledge they should've let you know, even if just a text, but even men have second thoughts and prob. bottled it. Not all men are as in your face as some and have feelings too.
They should have at least of contacted you after with an apology tho.

5 Feb 2007

Some of the chaps may have had second thoughts when they considered that they shouldn't be camera shy according to creampiegirl's profile.
Not sure I would like initimate photos of me taken by people I didn't know being in their hands. :shock:
How do others feel about this point?

5 Feb 2007

Quote by Liaisons

Some of the chaps may have had second thoughts when they considered that they shouldn't be camera shy according to creampiegirl's profile.
Not sure I would like initimate photos of me taken by people I didn't know being in their hands. :shock:
How do others feel about this point?

Isnt it in their best interest to research the person who they are planning to meet dunno

In which case they will have read the bit about not being camera shy rolleyes

5 Feb 2007

I agree with the ones who say that no-shows are just an unfortunate fact of SH life. Sadly a lot of people are just inconsiderate.
But please don't mention the V-word!

5 Feb 2007

Quote by MikeNorth
I agree with the ones who say that no-shows are just an unfortunate fact of SH life. Sadly a lot of people are just inconsiderate.
But please don't mention the V-word!

oooooh... the pandora's box that is "the V-word" on that subject, we were talking about it in the north west chat room where someone was saying we should bring it in.... by the time we had finished, they didn't have that view anymore.... smile

it is just a hazard of swinging life..... and i think most of us have suffered for it at least once, i think i am most discerning about it all now and weeding them out, if for some reason it doesn't feel right i don't meet until it does......
but it does give the genuine single guys a bad name, and that does make me sad....

5 Feb 2007

It really is a shame and doesn't do the rest of us (grateful) men any good.
You just have to write them off as ungrateful, ill mannered wastes of time. But be assured there ARE genuine men out there keen to see a smile on your face.
Sorry - but please don't give up!

5 Feb 2007

Quote by 1_well_hung_guy
trouble is, those guys not showing up reflects badly on the rest of us who are reliable

Does it really? confused

Having ‘no shows’ may make people more cautious, selective or even wary (with alarm bells ringing as they pick up on certain behaviours) – but if people want to meet single guys they will.
Surely if people become more cautious and selective it increases the chances for the ‘good ones’ to shine during the chaff and chav discarding process dunno

5 Feb 2007

Quote by PoloLady
Surely if people become more cautious and selective it increases the chances for the ‘good ones’ to shine during the chaff and chav discarding process

I am neither chaff nor chav, thanks - nothing but the most select grade A wheat! lol

5 Feb 2007

Quote by MikeNorth

Surely if people become more cautious and selective it increases the chances for the ‘good ones’ to shine during the chaff and chav discarding process

I am neither chaff nor chav, thanks - nothing but the most select grade A wheat! lol

Then you shall shine wink

MikeNorth aka MikeNorth-Star (twinkle-twinkle) lol

5 Feb 2007

Quote by PoloLady
Then you shall shine
MikeNorth aka MikeNorth-Star (twinkle-twinkle)

Thanks. See you up there when you're a satellite: Apolo 25 lol

6 Feb 2007

i was just thinking as i read this thread and it's no more differnt in the sales word its all to do with statictics( dunno

if that how its spelt) if i call 100 people only 20 would be interested in what i was sellin and out of that twenty i would proberly so 10 and out of that 10 only 6 would buy

6 Feb 2007

i think alot of men get cold feet
its sometimes daunting for a man
i no i have been nervous everytime i meet some one new
but if you say your going you should go
bob

6 Feb 2007

OK.............as a single guy here is my opion.
Everytime i have organised a meet, I have been. It is just common decency. A lot of people have said single men already have a bad reputation.
I however disagree. The genuine single guys are loved as much as cpls and single fems. I think the main problem is people that you dont know. I am always aprehensive of meeting new cpls/fems as i dont know what to expect. That is life.
Mike

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