We are a couple and very new to this, we have been playing with the idea of another man joining us, maybe watching us while he playes with himself, and then who knows lol, but the thing is while we're role playing this D, my wife, has often asked if i know of anyone who would and i've always said yes, and she's said she'd love to try and i told her that i could sort something out and if we both enjoyed it we could do it once every 6 months or something like that , she looked me in the eye and said she was figgering on every 2 weeks lol, she asked me once while we were watching a porn DVD having sex if i'd like to see her being fucked by a stranger, which got me as hard as hell lol and asked if we would use and abuse (in a sexy way that is) her, BUT in the coul light of day she doesnt even bring the subject up and if i try she wont talk about it! Now when she's horny she'll ask me things (I've done 3/4somes before i met her) about it and freely admits she would love to try but ( and maybe all women go throught this i don't know) she thinks that the man who would be joining us wouldn't fine here sexy! apart from that i think she would jump at the idea... HELP what do you think???
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Sex God
it might just be the talking in the bedroom she likes ,some things are best kept as a fantasy if not sure to go through with it with out any its the watching part why not try a club out where ppl are in same room see how she feels about that,before asking some one to be joining in with you.
Sex God
Mrs Tweeky is the same she really does not like to talk about the bedroom things unless it is either in the bedroom 
she is drunk or at an event. However we have played so I know its not just a fantasy to her. I dont have fantasy only things I want to do, whats the point in taking a fantasy to the grave.
she is drunk or at an event. However we have played so I know its not just a fantasy to her. I dont have fantasy only things I want to do, whats the point in taking a fantasy to the grave.
Sex God
Quote by Whatyalike2do
whats the point in taking a fantasy to the grave.
True, but what's the point in ripping apart your marriage/relationship for something that should just remain a fantasy?
I was talking about myself specificaly but in response to what you have said I guess you have to judge how much you are depriving yourself of against how much worth you put on the relationship. Always bear in mind you only get one life (to the best of my knowledge) so choose carefully how you spend it.
I personally love having fantasies and have not followed many through and may never. The most erogenous zone in your body is your brain so don't forget that as it carries you through many a dreary period 
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We have been to clubs and been in rooms with other people occasionally but thats it for now and maybe ever. Never say never but why rush
:lol: We have been to clubs and been in rooms with other people occasionally but thats it for now and maybe ever. Never say never but why rush
Sex God
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what's the point in ripping apart your marriage/relationship for something that should just remain a fantasy?
Very good point whatya
Or why be in a relationship in which you cant share your fantasy's
Like I said to the best of all our knowledge its one life so you have to balance it up.Slightly off line but I always wanted to be a tour rep abroad. I sent for the applications 2 times but I never sent them in. Its one of the few regrets I have I never did it
and as I find myself now in life I will never do it, thats it gone finshed no more. I hate that, sucks. One more thing I didnt do, I dont want too many of those. 