Have i made a mistake

12 Jul 2015

First of all i'm new around here but looking to learn!
I joined to re-invigorate a sense of adventure, i have been on similar sites before but find they are littered with timewasters.
I'm a twenty something guy looking for some intimate no-strings encounters however looking around it seems most people are after couples ?
Has anyone else had any experiences with females / couples seeking single mails ?
Also if anyone has any words of wisdom let me know :-)
Thanks for reading
Mr X

12 Jul 2015

Depends on how much time and effort you intend to put into the site.
I found that using the chatrooms everyday was the best way to build up a circle of friends; having a typed conversion in real time was much better than placing or replying to ads.

18 Jul 2015

Sorry to be so boring, but we would say check your grammar.
Profiles and posts with poor grammar and spelling immediately put us off and we know others feel the same way.

18 Jul 2015

Quote by tinytimmy
Sorry to be so boring, but we would say check your grammar.
Profiles and posts with poor grammar and spelling immediately put us off and we know others feel the same way.

:jagsatwork: yes!
And don't assume you have to chat filth to get filthy. Often a nice friendly chat about everything but sex is what makes someone positively engage with you and comfortable enough to meet ya.
Good luck

19 Jul 2015

Quote by tinytimmy
Sorry to be so boring, but we would say check your grammar.
Profiles and posts with poor grammar and spelling immediately put us off and we know others feel the same way.

There are also many of us who arn't put off by such things and prefer to get to know the person rather than judge them on their spelling and grammar smile

21 Jul 2015

I have to agree on that one.....if you're here just to check over someone's grammar then jeez bore off!!
My advise to you would be.....
* Put as much info on your profile as you can; what your into, what you're looking for, your do's and don't and add some pics obviously make the ones private that you need too. Me personally I much prefer seeing a profile with some effort into it.
* Put some effort in when you go into a chat room stick to the same room too for a couple of weeks i.e. the pool. DON'T copy and paste the same whisper to every single lady and couple, that never goes down well. Chit chat as a room, join in with banter and respect people's wishes a common one is ask if you can whisper first.
*Another tip would be attend a social not necessarily at a swingers club unless that's your thing but for me the best kind of social is just that, a pub social where musics playing, people are chatting, laughing and everyone is merry. Perfect opportunity for people to warm to you and see just how genuine you are.
Hope this helps and remember to say Hello when you next in the chat room Kinks x
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Quote by nellie1
Sorry to be so boring, but we would say check your grammar.
Profiles and posts with poor grammar and spelling immediately put us off and we know others feel the same way.

There are also many of us who arn't put off by such things and prefer to get to know the person rather than judge them on their spelling and grammar smile

12 Aug 2015

Quote by tinytimmy
Sorry to be so boring, but we would say check your grammar.
Profiles and posts with poor grammar and spelling immediately put us off and we know others feel the same way.

You've got a point - someone who can't write a decent profile or message isn't likely to be the kind of person we'd want to share much time with.
Also, have a look at the background to any photos you post - a guy who posts a picture which shows that he lives in a filthy place with piles of dirty things around etc isn't likely to be the sort of guy my wife will want to go to bed with.