Have you ever......

13 Nov 2008

Have you ever found out that someone is spreading lies about you and warning ppl off meeting you. If so how did u handle it.
I'm swinging (no pun intended) between tracking down the culprit(s) and reading the riot act to them and just saying stuff em and keeping quiet about it. But then i wonder how many other ppl they might still be talking to and how many more times i'm gonna have ppl say "Actually someone told me to steer clear"
I know we should all draw our own conclusions about ppl in this game, lets face it we are all individuals, someone we cannot stand my be a great hit with someone else.
But to find out that they are quoting an isolated incident that happened back in April (which incidentally had nothing to do with them) and are still saying to ppl who have only been in the chat a matter of weeks concerns me.
Any advice for me guys? dunno

13 Nov 2008

I had that done. There was a time when I danced a lot and was reasonably popular with the women of the studio. Since none of them tickled my fancy, I obviously showed nothing but a cold shoulder. As a result I simply had to be gay. That I could simply shed off and ignore.
I don't know how serious your case is. If it is something that SERIOUSLY impacts on your life (and perhaps that of people around you) then you might want to consider taking action. If it is something that perhaps just causes minor annoyance, ignore it.

14 Nov 2008

If its bollox then don't give them the satisfaction of being interested is my advice.

14 Nov 2008

Anyone who knows you well enough to call you a friend will take what is told to them by 3rd parties with a pinch of salt...
Rise above it and let the gossips have their bit of juvenile(sp) fun....

14 Nov 2008

Anyone who has an ounce of intelligence will make up their own minds about people without listening and taking note of gossip
In any case only half of the story will be told therefore its hardly worth listening to is it?
In fact if someone was gossiping to me about someone I did'nt know I would avoid them like the plague,these sort of people do themselves no favours and in time that will tell when word gets round that they realy are'nt very discreet or even very nice
I would rise above it and maintain a dignified silence,no point lowering yourself to the same level