Eeeek the thought of being found out brings me out in a cold sweat.
My parents are fairly easy going, in fact we've often said we wouldn't be surprised if we found them on a website or in a club.
My in-laws ..... "shudders" are very religious, very moral and upright people ....... and they are our babysitters! We would definitely be cut off from them and it's not worth thinking about.
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my hubbies parents used to be swingers years ago so wouldnt be able to say much but as for my parents - think they would die of heart attacks
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My family (close) already know, as do close friends... Much easier. However since I am social swinger it is easier on me.
I have had secrets in a previous relationship, but I am lucky to be close with my dad, so even then there was nothing to be 'found out', at least by him. I know how hard it is to lead 2 lives, I don't envy those of you with the difficulty of having to do so.
I wouldnt like my parents to find out, I'm already the black sheep of the family lol. My best friend knows though, its lovely to have someone to talk to about things. She'd never get involved but she doesn't judge me and it's also good from a safety point of view because when I was single I could tell her if I was going to meet someone.
Well someone DID find out about me at Uni but actually he's been really great with me......apart from a few comments about my 'naughty parties' he hasn't really said anything...
My best mate knows but he's a complete pervert anyway so that's fine....LoL.....
But anyone else, well it's private and I wouldn't want anyone else to know about it.....
screw them, if they can't handle what you are and what you enjoy doing and accept that you are happy doing it then they can't claim to have your best interests at heart.
the way i see it is people like sex ( duh! ) and swingers are way more open about it and that scares some people as they wish they could be that way.
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well my family have guessed at a lot of my activities and i live with my niece who is adult enough to understand my activities so to be honest i dont worry about it..if my family found out they wouldnt be happy as thety are commited christians but it wouldnt worry me if they fouind out..as for my friends i dont think they would worry to much as most of them have had some sort of fun or another over the years and if they or my family judged me and made a fuss then they wouldnt care that much would they???!! if anyone asked me if i swing i would say yes..just the same as if i was bi or gay i wouldnt hide it ( my niece actually begged me to " go gay" as she put it cos it would be cool to have a gay uncle hahahaha)
seriously though i wouldnt worry that much clare and steve if they got funny about it then they werent really much of a friend
Good God if my folks ever found out about me swinging they would die of fright.
My brother poor lad (bless him) is prolly still a virgin so he would not have a clue what swining is (prolly think its something done in a park next to a slide / Slyde) ... mmmm ... how true he would be lol
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but he's cool about it.
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but thats why i'm here so, another time) and i accidently sent an e-mail to one of my friends. She thought i was talking about an ann summers party at first and really wanted to come.
