Have you ever been in a 'relationship' which you knew was...wrong?
How did you deal with it? Did you end it because you knew you shouldn't see them?
What if you couldn't end it? If you could go back in time would you wish that you had never clapped eyes on one another or would you do it all again? Did you weigh up the consequences and disregard them?
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Have you ever been in a 'relationship' which you knew was...
Casanova
For sure - too many to mention. As someone who still can't draw hard lines between friends and lovers, I have had more than my fair share of unconventional relationships that *others* felt were wrong. And then some relationships that while not wrong were not right, because of bad personality match, ego, or circumstance.
But why is "relationship" in inverted commas?
But why is "relationship" in inverted commas?
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Obligatory Buzzcocks. For sure - too many to mention. As someone who still can't draw hard lines between friends and lovers, I have had more than my fair share of unconventional relationships that *others* felt were wrong. And then some relationships that while not wrong were not right, because of bad personality match, ego, or circumstance.
But why is "relationship" in inverted commas?
Well as I am using the term loosely.
Warming the Bed
Not really had my fair share of unconventional relationships. It was the one conventional relationship I've had that ended up so very "wrong!".
Casanova
Quote by pebble
But why is "relationship" in inverted commas?
Well as I am using the term loosely.
The only loose thing about it is our morals :P
Informal relationships are still relationships. Quote by 50ShadesOfBlue
Have you ever been in a 'relationship' which you knew was...wrong?
How did you deal with it? Did you end it because you knew you shouldn't see them?
What if you couldn't end it? If you could go back in time would you wish that you had never clapped eyes on one another or would you do it all again? Did you weigh up the consequences and disregard them?
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I am sure a lot of us has been on the same situations - so you are not alone!
If I knew what I know now, a little more self respects and assertiveness - would probably not got myself tangled up in these situations. Some of us are not fortunate enough to be taught the skills, or not shown by our parents that we are worthy...hence sadly I have made a few errors and bad decisions so far.
How did i deal with it? probably not the brightest thing, usually I would persevere until breaking point and then make the break (can be painful and a very confusing time) which at times were successful but other time, I was drawn back to the same person and got myself stuck again - and this time I mean big stuck...
Would do it again? No - i sincerely hope not! Is emotionally draining, physically very exhausting. I am getting professional help which hopefully stop myself from getting into this kind of situation again in the near future but also to help me to resolve my current circumstances (yes by weighing up the eggs in your basket - understanding the consequences and be ready for it).
And along pebble's line of unconventional relationship - I am discovering that journey with my master - a very difficult concept for me to grasp hold of - having been brought up the conventional way and anything else is classified as "immorals".. however I am enjoying life more than I ever had in the past and I finally feel alive and loved.
I hope you find what you want in life and hope it all makes sense of what I have just written.
xx apple
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I am sure a lot of us has been on the same situations - so you are not alone!
If I knew what I know now, a little more self respects and assertiveness - would probably not got myself tangled up in these situations. Some of us are not fortunate enough to be taught the skills, or not shown by our parents that we are worthy...hence sadly I have made a few errors and bad decisions so far.
How did i deal with it? probably not the brightest thing, usually I would persevere until breaking point and then make the break (can be painful and a very confusing time) which at times were successful but other time, I was drawn back to the same person and got myself stuck again - and this time I mean big stuck...
Would do it again? No - i sincerely hope not! Is emotionally draining, physically very exhausting. I am getting professional help which hopefully stop myself from getting into this kind of situation again in the near future but also to help me to resolve my current circumstances (yes by weighing up the eggs in your basket - understanding the consequences and be ready for it).
And along pebble's line of unconventional relationship - I am discovering that journey with my master - a very difficult concept for me to grasp hold of - having been brought up the conventional way and anything else is classified as "immorals".. however I am enjoying life more than I ever had in the past and I finally feel alive and loved.
I hope you find what you want in life and hope it all makes sense of what I have just written.
xx apple
Apple, a great post. You may not post often, but when you do it is good reading! Thanks
Stevie
Orgasminator
Good to see you post in the forum apple sis 
Wishing you lots of happiness on your journey
dee xxx
Wishing you lots of happiness on your journey
dee xxx
