He does all the work

7 Jun 2014

OK I am not talking about aaaall the different activities that make up for great sex, because obviously I don't just lay there and think of England from start to finish. But when it comes to PIV penetration, he does ALL the work! Always! He is dripping and I hardly break a sweat. The difference is quite pronounced - he goes on two-mile runs to keep his stamina and fitness, I eat another chocolate brioche and ponder on my next orgasm. Is this "how nature intended"? Is he going above and beyond the call of duty, spoiling me in the process? Am I being plain lazy? How does it go with you?

7 Jun 2014

Quote by pebble
OK I am not talking about aaaall the different activities that make up for great sex, because obviously I don't just lay there and think of England from start to finish. But when it comes to PIV penetration, he does ALL the work! Always! He is dripping and I hardly break a sweat. The difference is quite pronounced - he goes on two-mile runs to keep his stamina and fitness, I eat another chocolate brioche and ponder on my next orgasm. Is this "how nature intended"? Is he going above and beyond the call of duty, spoiling me in the process? Am I being plain lazy? How does it go with you?

Very interesting thoughts.... I was asked a similar question many years ago by a partner. To be fair when I was asked I paused and thought to myself. It occurred to me am thrusting away with every muscle becoming rock solid, every sinew tensing, every bead of sweat running across my brow and my heart pounding in my chest and wondered what it would be like if someone broke a sweat for me? and did she have the same passion for me that i had for her? I put across the question and was met with a surprised look and after a brief pause she asked me to come home the following day straight from the office to her house to find out.
The following day i walked up to the house after a long day at work thinking to myself I wonder whats awaiting behind that door. She had sent me cryptic text messages throughout the day which had left me with questions I wanted answering. When the door opened she met my glance with the same beaming smile she always did. As I stepped through the door it all began to change. Suddenly the smile became sultry and as the door shut behind me and I was pushed up against the wall and kissed passionately on the lips and my heart was racing. Then she cunningly tripped me on to my back which partially winded me and ripped open my shirt. My buttons pinged off the corridor walls down the corridor. She lunged in and began kissing from neck to my lips while drawing her nails across my chest. The sensation was so intense as she backed away biting my lower lip as she pulled away.
Then suddenly she began to kiss all across my bare chest giving special attention to my nipples while all the time looking up at me. Winking and sliding a warm hand down my trousers she grabbed my member and began to tug. She stopped to undo my belt and pull out my member and tug away intensely. She then took the belt and looped it around my neck and said follow me.....
Hours later when I was sat in A & E in my hospital gown being diagnosed with bruised hip, fractured collar bone and broken metatarsal and array of other bruising. She then took the time to whisper in my ear that I had no idea of what I did to her and that she had only shown me the tip of the iceberg. I promise you no one would guess this woman could do what she did to me.
Of course not all women have that animal side to them, but its always worth finding out. Brioche for lunch i think ;)
xxx

7 Jun 2014

I am sure you are woth every calorie burnt pebble ;)
I usually feel like I am expected to make more of the effort in order for us both to have a good time, however I have only come across a couple of girls who I have considered genuinely selfish or lazy. Usually if she makes the right noises and pulls the right faces for me I'm happy to do the majority of the work.
On the flip side I have had one or two girls who have pushed me back on the bed and then rode me like a sprint stage on the Tour De France.

Quote by pebble
OK I am not talking about aaaall the different activities that make up for great sex

Can we compare lists sometime pebble??
:small-print:
Wanna make sure I'm not missing something important x

8 Jun 2014

From my perspective it all depends on the people - we are all different and like different things.
I for one don't go to the gym and think that running, whilst bringing fitness benefits should be recognised as a torture method lol I do however enjoy cycling.
What works in the bedroom differs according to the people - I feel I'm naturally a little more assertive than most of my female partners, though I don't mind if they sometimes take control of the situation. In the end it's about teasing and playing with each others minds as much as it is with our bodies.
I really don't notice how much "work" I'm doing in the bedroom, I am absorbed by something very pleasurable and don't notice myself getting tired, although the endomophins created in an energetic session and finding myself out of breath at the end often gives rise to the biggest smiles.
Sounds like your both spoiling each other. smile

8 Jun 2014

Myself I am not a lazy lover and enjoy a very energetic turn on top, I even like to move my hips to every thrust so we both get maximum pleasure that builds into a quite intense crescendo wink

8 Jun 2014

I don't shag Ironing boards wink

16 Jun 2014

Oh, so it takes you two miles to chase and catch him!! Maybe you' d get to him quicker if you cut out a few of the brioches.. ( Though I suspect he' s not REALLY trying to get away )

17 Jun 2014

Quote by Jaynlin
Oh, so it takes you two miles to chase and catch him!!

Hahaha! Your majesty! Welcome to the forum!

17 Jun 2014

Sometimes, not always, her lying still,(works for me) well more than likely being pulled and released, usually from a spooning position, is just what's needed to reach the orgasm after the hour(s)of intercourse.....the time is obviously dependent upon who she is and what we think of each other as a partner.
But hey, don't have a guilt trip ... enjoy ... he's doing so.