Hi, my name is Jo, F, 26 from Birmingham. Will be asking for advice if thats ok?
what do you want to know jo ?
Just as and when i think of questions really. Going to a swinging club on friday night with my partner and we are looking to hook up with a few single guys (for me, not him!) but from what i've seen on the sites, its generally couples and women?
which club you going to ?
go along and have the crack !!!
youve only got to do what you want to do
no ones going to jump you jo
enjoy it !!!
half the fun of clubs is the antisipation and the adrenolin
dont drink too muck alcohol before you go !!!! you need to think rationally
Yeah, i'm sure a bit of dutch courage can go too far can't it? will def have to have a few glasses of wine first though. I suppose i'm getting anxious cos my partner is so blase about it all!
Welcome to SH Jo....... read through your thread and echo the comments made..... I prefer the club scene and like they said, you only do what you want to do and if anyone approaches you that you don't fancy - a polite no thanks usually is enough, they all know the score and shouldn't hassle you.
Thanks, don't get me wrong i'm really looking forward to it it, i suppose you just have no idea what to expect until you get there! the unknown element is quite exciting!
You are lucky that there are clubs to go to, theres nothing doing in my area.
go enjoy yourself and remember its the ladies choice and the guys should
respect that issue.
no means no in the swinging world,
anyway have a lovely time find some nice guys and have fun
lisamarie
Hi there and welcome pull up a nice easy chair and welcome :welcome: to you from me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
velcome to SH.
Tbh I'd be to scred to go to a swinging club on my own.
Hello there and welcome to the site, hope you have lots of fun. I am sure you will find it quite easy finding single from here to hook up with.
Good luck
X
you should have a bostin time on here 
Hello back!
yeah i suppose i'm just being silly. I know what i'm like i'll end up having a better time than my other half!!
