Hiya, firts off, let us say hi to everyone.
Then, the reason why we joined lol...
we are a strong couple, (F25 M35)
We decided a long while back, that we would action on a fantasy we both share, to have another female join us.......
First, we went to a few local gay bars, and while i managed to get given a girls number, she was not interested in my man being part of it, and as this is for us, not just me, we didnt take it further.
Then totally by accident, we found new friends, and they let on one night, they liked to swing, this brought a ray of light to us, in we thought they could help and advice us. So when we trusted them enough to tell them our fantasy, they were only interested in swapping, while this doesnt appeal to us, as we want to share the experiece together, they then refused to help basically, because we said no to swapping.
We have spent countles hours talking via the net, etc, to find we were talking to men pretending to be woman, even had one try talking via mic, but he didnt quite manage to lose the husky mans voice lol
while it sounds funny to read, to us its frustrating as hell, we talk about what we both want from this, during sex, i talk about, but we just dont seem to be able to actually meet a genuine lady, looking for the same as us.
Are we being unrealistic?
we are both a good looking couple, we can travel, accomodate or meet, but we get no where.
it's becoming that we are almost to affraid to do it now, as we have spoken and built it up so much, it now has a lot to live upto.
What can we do ?
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Hello, and advice needed lol
Sex God
It has been pointed out many times on here, (and go and check for yourself if you want) there are far more couples looking for a fem to join them, than there are fems looking for couples. Therefor the fems can be choosy.
If you are going to advertise, then make sure you write a really good ad that stands out, and then see what happens. Alternatively why don't you stick around here, make a few posts, learn a bit about people and see what develops. You can also try munches if you get the opportunity.
Good Luck
M & H
If you are going to advertise, then make sure you write a really good ad that stands out, and then see what happens. Alternatively why don't you stick around here, make a few posts, learn a bit about people and see what develops. You can also try munches if you get the opportunity.
Good Luck
M & H
Sex God
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munches?????
Thanks for your reply, i certainly think we will be staying anyway.
Take some time to look thru the stuff to the left side of the window. You will learn a lot about this site and the people on it, not to mention the do's and don'ts..... you will also learn what a munch is (short version - a social gathering where site members can meet, socialise, drink, and be merry - they are not intended to be sexual in nature - and give newbies a chance to meet other members).
M & H
there are some many men, couples and other single women on here looking for single fems that, as it has been said, you really do have to stand out, now obviously it's a bit dodgy for a single fem to be meeting strangers off the internet so i think you will find that the genuine single fems will go for the well know people, maybe couples they have met at a munch, party, club b4 hand, i personally wouldn't meet alone with a total stranger, ever for a drink in a pub see where it leads type meet, i only ever meet alone with people i have met b4 this is purly for safety, and i know i'm not the only women who feel that way theres some funny folkes out there you know 
so my advice is get known on here and in a few months get your name down for a munch :thumbup:
not only will u get to meet the genuine people on this site you will also get known as genuine, after all we only have your word for it that you are a couple :wink:
so my advice is get known on here and in a few months get your name down for a munch :thumbup:
not only will u get to meet the genuine people on this site you will also get known as genuine, after all we only have your word for it that you are a couple :wink:
You could try going to clubs looking for the single fem, or advertising on numerous other sites than this. As good a site as this is, it isn't the only one on the big ol' web. It might help if you were straight up and direct in what you're after. A lot of time people back out when they discover there's a clash of interests in what they want out of a meet. Single fems are probably rarer than an english-loving frenchman, but they are out there. Persistance is the key. That and a mirror 
