Hello from me (and him)

21 Sep 2005

Hiya,
I am just making myself known in the forum. My husband and I are 28 yrs and looking to spice up our relationship. We found this site and figured it would help - We are both totally new to this kind of thing and the main aim is to make friends with similar interests.
A little about us - I am 5'4 size 26 and quite self consious about my size .. tho looking through this site I feel a bit better about that biggrin

He is 5'7, muscular build and slim(ish).. lol .. and not self consious but is a little shy.
Am looking forward to making new friends and from the sound of things the parties people hold are great fun .. would love to have the opportunity to experience them once we have made our selves known a little more.
I am wanting a little advice on whether people think it is better to post an add for couples meeting couples or to visit a club first - Like I said we are new to this and are a little anxious about meeting up with a couple thenbeing too scared and bottling out at the last min.
Thanx for the time to reply in advance ... K & G :happy:

21 Sep 2005

Just saying HI!
The guys on here will give you all the advice you'll need.....whether it's about swinging, continental cooking or deep sea diving!
take it easy
K I N K Y L I Z A R D

21 Sep 2005

Hi Kaz
You'll do fine - have a laugh on here first, then worry about it!

21 Sep 2005

Just relax and enjoy yourselves. Have fun and welcome to SH.
John
smile

22 Sep 2005

What they said :thumbup:
Welcome to SH... have lots of fun :bounce:

22 Sep 2005

Hi Kaz and welcome biggrin

22 Sep 2005

Hi Kaz, and :welcome: . I hope you enjoy it in here.
Mike.

22 Sep 2005

hi kaz, come in and pull up a chair.
hpoe you find wot your looking for and have fun.
sierra x x wink

22 Sep 2005

OOOh Steph, love the new avatar, sexy or what!!!
Hijack off
Hi Kaz, welcome to the forum and I am sure you will have loads of fun on here. As for clubs or meeting a couple, well its what ever you both feel comfortable with. Perhaps you could incorporate them together and meet a couple to go to a club with lol

Serious stuff - I would always say only do what you feel comfortable with and dont go any further than you are sure you want to do. Why not arrange to meet a couple to go out for a drink and then arrange to meet the following weekend if you are all in agreement. That way it takes a bit of the pressure off and you have time to think about what you really want. Going to a club with another couple does not mean that you have to play together, you could even just use it as a social experience to see what the clubs are really like.
Whatever you decide, have fun, dont push yourself too far, and dont worry about your size, whether you are tiny, large or anywhere in between, you are always someones fantasy :lol:
Good luck xxx

22 Sep 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
and dont worry about your size, whether you are tiny, large or anywhere in between, you are always someones fantasy

Aww what a lovely sentiment NWC smile

made my day that has biggrin

Hijack off
:welcome: to swingingheaven Kaz and hubby :)
I would agree with what the others have said :thumbup: just take your time and get a feel for the scene before you rush into anything and don't do anything either of you aren't comfy with.
Have fun ! :bounce:
Minx x x

22 Sep 2005

enjoy swinging heaven and go to a club either way you are never to far forward to do a u turn,unfortunatley we are too old for you or we may have pm,d you,anyway have fun

22 Sep 2005

hi from us to, its a good place to find your true self, and laugh ;-)

22 Sep 2005

Hello and welcome to the site :welcome:
(Ooohhhh, nice Avatar S&N!)

22 Sep 2005

Thanx everyone for your kind words and welcome biggrin

We look forward to meeting up with some of you folks that are near our area - Life is far too short not to take the oppertunity to make new friends
K&G :cheers:

22 Sep 2005

Hey!
I am also newbie since early afternoon, and welcome here too..
Keep smiling! smile

22 Sep 2005

Just made ourselves an avatar, hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it :evil2:

22 Sep 2005

Quote by KazBBW
Just made ourselves an avatar, hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it :evil2:

Fantastic Avatar, one of my new hobbies at the moment is which avatar should I have today lol

22 Sep 2005

oooo Helloooo Kaz and G wave

Welcome to SH :rose:

22 Sep 2005

Hi Kaz,
welcome to swinging heaven, you will have lots of fun on here.
hope you find what your looking for biggrin

Tina xxx

22 Sep 2005

:wave:

22 Sep 2005

Hiya and enjoy yourselves....
Hell don't worry bout a thing and glad you are oveercoming the size issue... fuck if I worried I wouldl only be able to make love to me hand lol...
Thank christ we have personas..... Hope you both have fucking oodles of fun