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Hello to everyone
Hope i fit in here 36 male married but swinging alone (not a good start i know)
i am hoping to be here for the long haul and find i help others as much as i help myself
Thats me in a nutshell
Hiya Mark,
If you fit in a nutshell, it is likely you can squeez in here somewhere. :sticky:
I'll forgo the 'cheating' lecture, because it sounds like you are well aware of how many will view your choices. :jagsatwork:
See you around, good luck and enjoy. biggrin
lhk
Kat
Hi n welcome , not sure how the " married but swinging alone " bit will go down in here but hey , thats your business . Enjoy the forums HR&D
I posted married but swinging alone because that shows me to be honest not a time waster as i have noticed these sites are very full of people who just want to waist other peoples time.
i will be posting adverts on the ad section for those who want to make contact
Hi Mark,
We're new too!
Good luck, may you find what you're looking for. :twisted:
posted my first add 272657
lol And here was me thinking that you had been reading through some of the previous posts on the subject! :lol:
I'll do the abridged version of the lecture for you then.
Many people resent married folk using the word 'swinging' to describe being on here, feeling that what they are doing is not swinging but cheating. - And will point out the contradiction of trying to claiming to be honest while cheating on your wife.
Many people are not bothered by it at all, and do not feel the need to chastise you for being on here, will understand why you do it, and will respect you for standing up and being honest.
However, one thing that everyone will agree on is that you are risking everything by looking to swing. Sometimes, no matter how careful or well intentioned you are, things happen over which you have no control, and that can ruin lives.
lhk
Kat
Kitkat you are very right in all the things you say.
i am taking a risk but its a rist i am aware of.
i have made evey attempt to make my wife swing and therefore i dont see it a cheating i see it as fullfilling my sexual desire as i have stated i dont need to take part i am very happy to watch.
so do give me a chance i am trying to get over the first obsticle and dont want to fall at it !!!!
Quote by Markforu
I posted married but swinging alone because that shows me to be honest not a time waster

Welcome, as an honest sort of guy you may let your wife in on the site. she may enjoy it.
i may have used the wrong word by saying i tried to make her!!
i tried to convince her.
yes i am going to show her this site and hope she changes her mind!
welcome Mark....
Quote by Markforu
Kitkat you are very right in all the things you say.
i am taking a risk but its a rist i am aware of.
i have made evey attempt to make my wife swing and therefore i dont see it a cheating i see it as fullfilling my sexual desire as i have stated i dont need to take part i am very happy to watch.
so do give me a chance i am trying to get over the first obsticle and dont want to fall at it !!!!

Last word of sage advice before bed. Many (including Kit and I) will have no problem with you chatting on here, or at a social event, but will make it very clear to you that they will not swing with you simply because you are married, and believe what you are doing is wrong.
So if you ask how people feel, and they tell you, don't try and defend yourself, or justify what you do, if you are happy that it is right for you, just suck it up and get on with it.
lhk
Kat
In truth, unless a couple met within the "scene" ONE of a couple must voice the idea to spice things up a little.
I find it a little sad (as in traditional sad, not the Harry Enfield version sad ) when someone in a loving relationship feels the need to seek outside of the relationship for fun due to the partners reluctance.
Easy for me to say, I was dealt a decent hand of cards....which to me is not a basis to take the higher moral ground. However, I would still urge you to leave it a while longer to see if your partner likes the liberated atmosphere that prevails around these parts smile
Thanks for the advice from you all, i am listening and know what you mean.
i am going to work on us both comming on board this site, its the first thing i will mention tomorrow,
i wish to be respected and respect other members.
Welcome Mark.
Quote by Markforu
... its the first thing i will mention tomorrow

... if we don't hear from you again, I'll start to worry and will be scanning the local press for the next installment. In other words, good luck.
thanks blueis
got my first meet to watch only i dont think i am doing wrong watching am i ???
do i watch or do i turn down from the experienced members here i will take note of your comments.