me and partner joined the site last year to add a new dimension to out sex life, which we have enjoyed very much. i have just found out he has been going it alone on here, im very open minded but i feel as though he is cheating on me by not telling me. any words of wisdom will be gratefully received. thank-u. xxx ps.. i know its not an agony aunt/uncle site but not many places out there to get advice about this.