HELP. New Niaive and seeking assistance.

28 Sep 2004

IHello there everyone. My first attempt at posting so hope it works!!!
Any ladies or couples out there forDerbys, Notts, Lincs or South Yorks.
Ive been in the chatroom and my god its tough in there. Everyone seems to already know each other!!!! So how the hell do you get into the gang? lol. Is there anyone out there who could take me under their wing as it were and let me into this apparently closed world of theirs????
confused

Please help...........M.

28 Sep 2004

Well, welcome to the Site....... lol

Rather than trying to pick someone up I'd suggest you join in the site and get to know us and then you might find yourself getting lucky because you'll make some wonderful friends......

28 Sep 2004

Sorry I'm not in your area to help in the flesh, so to speak wink

The chatroom can be busy and fast moving at times but don't loose heart with it. Join in some of the conversations that are going on and pretty soon you will find yourself an accepted member in there.
There is no "in crowd" in there and yes a lot of us do know each other, but mostly the people from there have not met each other apart from in the room itself.
It takes time to find your feet, but be polite, join in and have fun as we all do. smile

Say Hi if you see me in there!
Tracy-Jayne

28 Sep 2004

Hang around in here and get posting you'll soon find that everyone is just fabulous.

28 Sep 2004

lots of experts here and people will always give you there outspoken oponion several times wether you want it or not
enjoy poke

28 Sep 2004

The regulars in the chatroom often do know each other, but it's surpriingly easy to fit right in if you just join in with the general chatter and nattering. Soon you'll be a regular too!
As for general 'how to join in' advice outdide the chatroom, I would recommend signing up for your local munch (click 'terminology' on the left if you don't know what a munch is) in the 'lets meet up' forum.
hope you enjoy it here.... we do!

28 Sep 2004

hey professorj
just dive in, politely, and join in any conversation you can chip in with. do it enough times, people get used to seeing you. if the chatrooms too fast, do the same here and get to know us! most are friendly enough!
oh and :welcome: to the site by the way! have fun!
neil x x x ;)

28 Sep 2004

Hi professorj wave

Here's my official hello ....... see you managed perfectly ok without my useless advice :lol2:
Welcome to the world of the forums, take a look around, see what's what, then chip in with your say cool

Good luck

28 Sep 2004

Hi professorj - join in and get to know people and let them get to know you - it's the only way (easier on the Forum). It's fun - prepare to get addicted.