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Hi all Im having a few problems writing ads. I never know what to say. I try and write about myself and get no veiws so I try and be a bit more daring and do no better any help would be great.
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Hi! :welcome: to the forums.
I think when writting an ad or profile just be honest in what you are looking for and tell people a little about yourself.
I do believe some people join this site feeling it will be a quick fix, and generally it isn't. A lot of people like to become familar with talking to someone first, and take things slowly.
Time and patience is a virtue.
I did look at your ad and profile, all seems ok with them, you are pretty young that could be a factor with some here.
I think the best advice I can offer just start talking on the forums, or pick a chat room near to where you are based and get yourself know a little.
Hope this helps a little.
I think when writting an ad or profile just be honest in what you are looking for and tell people a little about yourself.
I do believe some people join this site feeling it will be a quick fix, and generally it isn't. A lot of people like to become familar with talking to someone first, and take things slowly.
Time and patience is a virtue.
I did look at your ad and profile, all seems ok with them, you are pretty young that could be a factor with some here.
I think the best advice I can offer just start talking on the forums, or pick a chat room near to where you are based and get yourself know a little.
Hope this helps a little.
as a single guy...think you will find...no matter what you write your chances of getting a reply are thin !! there are so many male ads out there. You may refresh your ad and with-in 5 min you are on page 4 !! May i suggest you find yourself a local chat room..and get active in there. Plenty more likely to check your profile that way i find. Also getting along to the socials and munches is good way of getting known and suddenly people search for and take a look at your profile.
Treat this as simply a bit of fun and a giggle and sure your rewards will come.
Treat this as simply a bit of fun and a giggle and sure your rewards will come.
Quote by deancannock
as a single guy...think you will find...no matter what you write your chances of getting a reply are thin !! there are so many male ads out there. You may refresh your ad and with-in 5 min you are on page 4 !! May i suggest you find yourself a local chat room..and get active in there. Plenty more likely to check your profile that way i find. Also getting along to the socials and munches is good way of getting known and suddenly people search for and take a look at your profile.
Treat this as simply a bit of fun and a giggle and sure your rewards will come.
What he said :thumbup:
Single males outnumber females by at least 10-1. Add to that the bi fems and couples looking for single females and you're way down the line I'm sorry to say.
All you can do is make your profile as interesting as possible, if you make the first move pm-wise remember to do your best to get her attention ( cock shots will NOT do that despite what others may think
)In the meantime, keep posting in here and get into chat. You have to put into this to get something out of it so get yourself known. Have fun!
Sassy
btw welcome to the forums
Forum Virgin
Sounds like some good advice. Ill try a few suggestions and see how it goes.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Hi! :welcome: to the forums.
I think when writting an ad or profile just be honest in what you are looking for and tell people a little about yourself.
I do believe some people join this site feeling it will be a quick fix, and generally it isn't. A lot of people like to become familar with talking to someone first, and take things slowly.
Time and patience is a virtue.
I did look at your ad and profile, all seems ok with them, you are pretty young that could be a factor with some here.
I think the best advice I can offer just start talking on the forums, or pick a chat room near to where you are based and get yourself know a little.
Hope this helps a little.
gr8 advice to you from all so far , as a single male on here my only advice I could give is just be friendly attend socials munches get in to the chat and the forums and persevere and dont give up , joining essentials might be a good idea to as it might prove you mean to stick around rather than the fly by nights that come and go have fun and welcome.
steve
hi hun, welcome to the forums.
one thing that stood out to me is your age comment.
you may not mean it to sound this way, but when i read a youngster saying age is not important to me, what i read is its ok ill meet older people.
what i mean by that is,when i get messaged and say sorry hun you are to young, th ereply i get is its ok it dont matter how old you are !!!!! :shock:
when what i mean is it matters how old you are lol
so maybe just a slight rewording to say you respect people have age preferences,however you are attracted to and mix well with all age groups. that kind a thing, so it dont sond like you think your doing us oldies a favour by meeting us.
did that make any sense???
goodluck
xxx fem xxx
one thing that stood out to me is your age comment.
you may not mean it to sound this way, but when i read a youngster saying age is not important to me, what i read is its ok ill meet older people.
what i mean by that is,when i get messaged and say sorry hun you are to young, th ereply i get is its ok it dont matter how old you are !!!!! :shock:
when what i mean is it matters how old you are lol
so maybe just a slight rewording to say you respect people have age preferences,however you are attracted to and mix well with all age groups. that kind a thing, so it dont sond like you think your doing us oldies a favour by meeting us.
did that make any sense???
goodluck
xxx fem xxx
Quote by fem_4_taboo
hi hun, welcome to the forums.
one thing that stood out to me is your age comment.
you may not mean it to sound this way, but when i read a youngster saying age is not important to me, what i read is its ok ill meet older people.
what i mean by that is,when i get messaged and say sorry hun you are to young, th ereply i get is its ok it dont matter how old you are !!!!! :shock:
when what i mean is it matters how old you are lol
so maybe just a slight rewording to say you respect people have age preferences,however you are attracted to and mix well with all age groups. that kind a thing, so it dont sond like you think your doing us oldies a favour by meeting us.
did that make any sense???
goodluck
xxx fem xxx
good point fem 4...........
steve x
