Help Please - 1st time couple

13 Aug 2005

Hi
We are a couple (m/f) looking to meet with a single fem or m/f couple for Cs first girl/girl experience. Most ads want facial photos in reply but we are worried about them being misused as you cant be sure who you are sending them to. We are both in responsible positions workwise and dont want to chance anything. Is it normally safe to send them, what should we look out for.
Thanks in advance for any advice/help.
C and D

13 Aug 2005

You could make the picture quality so poor and small that they could be of the next door cat, never mind you (not actually that bad, really wink

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Take a look at most of the other ads and you will see what I mean.
Of course that may limit your replies, but it is a balancing act.

13 Aug 2005

Thanks for your welcome and your advice.
How do we get invited to a munch? This sounds a good starting point. We have children so we have been talking about this for a few months and because we so rarely get free nights it hasnt progressed to actually meeting anyone.
We put up a post on the forum for a meet a few weeks ago and nobody replied presumably because there were no photos. I hope so anyway and that our description of ourselves wasnt the reason!!

13 Aug 2005

Thanks again and also to Phoenix for the helpful advice

14 Aug 2005

Quote by cat02_dave
Thanks for your welcome and your advice.
How do we get invited to a munch? This sounds a good starting point. We have children so we have been talking about this for a few months and because we so rarely get free nights it hasnt progressed to actually meeting anyone.
We put up a post on the forum for a meet a few weeks ago and nobody replied presumably because there were no photos. I hope so anyway and that our description of ourselves wasnt the reason!!

Hi Cat02 and Dave
. :idea: :idea: :idea: ...just an idea, look for feed back from you.....what about 'Newbies Unite'....Newbies organise their own 'Munches' and 'Social get togethers'....could be small local groups or larger regional groups.....that way we all begin to get to know each other...elimates the risk of recognisable photos going into the public domain....and of course we might find newbies at these meets who we are genuinely interested in for 'fun' and 'frolics'.....and if we don't we might still have an enjoyable evening together.
mmmm....think I will put a post in the 'Meets' forum or The Cafe just to sound out other newbies feelings......
......good luck
Risen Phoenix :wave: