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Hi peeps, I split with my wife in Jan and feel the need to get out and live a little. I'd love to meet some people who could help me settle in here and introduce me to some events and meets etc etc. I'd be very grateful for any help received. PS i'm from south london
Have a look in Let's Meet Up and see if there are any socials or munches happening near to you. The organisers will help with handholders if you are that nervous; someone who will maybe meet you outside and introduce you to a few folks until you're comfortable enough to make your own way.
Good luck smile
Hi Mark, we are the other end of the country from you, so not a lot of help with the socials etc, but welcome to the forums, pull up a chair and be prepared never to find the exit lol
Really do hope you have loads of fun round here wink
hi mark suggest photo on profile !! suggest eureka which is friendly perhaps the june social ?
xx Choochie
Mark, stay away from the ladies above. They really are perverted :grin:
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Hi mark, and welcome to the forums....plenty of fun to be had in here lol :lol:
and he may be looking for the perverted ladies :rascal:
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Mark, stay away from the ladies above. They really are perverted :grin:
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Hello Mrs. Kettle lol
Quote by Freckledbird
Mark, stay away from the ladies above. They really are perverted :grin:
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Hello Mrs. Kettle lol
I have no idea what you are talking about innocent
they're not perverted, just misunderstood..... aren't they?
Quote by Mark_PS
they're not perverted, just misunderstood..... aren't they?

join them... there's nothing wrong with perverted
thats what i'm trying to do lol... hint hint lol
Quote by Dawnie
Mark, stay away from the ladies above. They really are perverted :grin:
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Mark, really do not take any notice of anything Dawnie says, she even keeps telling everyone she is straight rolleyes
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they're not perverted, just misunderstood..... aren't they?

join them... there's nothing wrong with perverted
Phew, thank goodness for that wink
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Mark, really do not take any notice of anything Dawnie says, she even keeps telling everyone she is straight rolleyes

But I am straight :smug:
Quote by Dawnie

Mark, really do not take any notice of anything Dawnie says, she even keeps telling everyone she is straight rolleyes

But I am straight :smug:
Do you keep saying that in the hope that you will convince yourself?
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Mark, really do not take any notice of anything Dawnie says, she even keeps telling everyone she is straight rolleyes

But I am straight :smug:
Do you keep saying that in the hope that you will convince yourself?
No, I keep saying it because it is the truth biggrin
Quote by essex34m

Mark, really do not take any notice of anything Dawnie says, she even keeps telling everyone she is straight rolleyes

But I am straight :smug:
Do you keep saying that in the hope that you will convince yourself?
I think she must be - nobody else is convinced though lol
Wife left me late last year too, didn't move our 'till March though, you will find some lovely people on this site. I've had more support on here than I've had from family!
Don't rush into anything though, I think you (& I) need time to decide where you're going before setting out on the journey.
Does that sound too know it all? not my intention, I know nothing
Freckled, not working today, got week wrong, 7:00 this morning got up drove to work place - nowt there, checked instructions - next week DOH!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by webster
Freckled, not working today, got week wrong, 7:00 this morning got up drove to work place - nowt there, checked instructions - next week DOH!!!!!!!!!!

Oops - silly bugger!
Yep!!!!!!!!!!!!!! biggrin
cheers webster, I really appreciate that sentiment. From reading the other posts here, people do seem to have an openess and lack of pretence that you rarely find with more uptight people.
I don't want to rush in to anything, I do want to develop a circle of friends on here and to just enjoy life a bit. That looks like its going to be quite tricky because i'm a single bloke and this place is full of them. I would imagine that as a group, single blokes are possibly typecast as shaggers and chancers??
Quote by webster
Wife left me late last year too, didn't move our 'till March though, you will find some lovely people on this site. I've had more support on here than I've had from family!
Don't rush into anything though, I think you (& I) need time to decide where you're going before setting out on the journey.
Does that sound too know it all? not my intention, I know nothing
Freckled, not working today, got week wrong, 7:00 this morning got up drove to work place - nowt there, checked instructions - next week DOH!!!!!!!!!!
No, they aren't all seen that way. You'd be surprised how difficult it is for single females actually.
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cheers webster, I really appreciate that sentiment. From reading the other posts here, people do seem to have an openess and lack of pretence that you rarely find with more uptight people.
I don't want to rush in to anything, I do want to develop a circle of friends on here and to just enjoy life a bit. That looks like its going to be quite tricky because i'm a single bloke and this place is full of them. I would imagine that as a group, single blokes are possibly typecast as shaggers and chancers??
Wife left me late last year too, didn't move our 'till March though, you will find some lovely people on this site. I've had more support on here than I've had from family!
Don't rush into anything though, I think you (& I) need time to decide where you're going before setting out on the journey.
Does that sound too know it all? not my intention, I know nothing
Freckled, not working today, got week wrong, 7:00 this morning got up drove to work place - nowt there, checked instructions - next week DOH!!!!!!!!!!
i really hadn't considered that actually. I spose the trick must be to just hang in there and be me until people get to know me
Quote by Freckledbird
No, they aren't all seen that way. You'd be surprised how difficult it is for single females actually.
cheers webster, I really appreciate that sentiment. From reading the other posts here, people do seem to have an openess and lack of pretence that you rarely find with more uptight people.
I don't want to rush in to anything, I do want to develop a circle of friends on here and to just enjoy life a bit. That looks like its going to be quite tricky because i'm a single bloke and this place is full of them. I would imagine that as a group, single blokes are possibly typecast as shaggers and chancers??
Wife left me late last year too, didn't move our 'till March though, you will find some lovely people on this site. I've had more support on here than I've had from family!
Don't rush into anything though, I think you (& I) need time to decide where you're going before setting out on the journey.
Does that sound too know it all? not my intention, I know nothing
Freckled, not working today, got week wrong, 7:00 this morning got up drove to work place - nowt there, checked instructions - next week DOH!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by Mark_PS
i really hadn't considered that actually. I spose the trick must be to just hang in there and be me until people get to know me

Yup :thumbup:
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Absolutely Mark - I think that this place takes perseverance... but it's worth it. Well, it has been in my experience anyway. I've had heaps of fun and made some great friends.
oh i'll stick with it, i'm just mindful of not wanting to appear like a stalker popping up all over the place
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Absolutely Mark - I think that this place takes perseverance... but it's worth it. Well, it has been in my experience anyway. I've had heaps of fun and made some great friends.
Mark, I think you have made a really good start by just coming in here and chatting with these nutters, I mean people.
Webster did talk a lot of sense in his post, there is no rush, just enjoy the chatting and if it does feel right, then other things may come along, if it dont feel right, then the chatting is also good biggrin
Single guys are not necesarily typecast in anyway, well not the nice ones, but you do get out of this site (and others) what you put into it and if you are here to get to know people first, then you wont go far wrong with getting your name down for one of the socials which are often advertised in the Lets Meet Up part of the forums.
Whatever you do, have fun and take care wink (and watch out for Dawnie saying she is straight) :D
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Whatever you do, have fun and take care wink (and watch out for Dawnie saying she is straight) biggrin

:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
I don't care what you say, I know what I am :smug:
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Whatever you do, have fun and take care wink (and watch out for Dawnie saying she is straight) biggrin

:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
I don't care what you say, I know what I am :smug:
Bendy! :rascal:
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Quote by Dirtygirly

Whatever you do, have fun and take care wink (and watch out for Dawnie saying she is straight) biggrin

:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
I don't care what you say, I know what I am :smug:
Bendy! :rascal:
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You wish :giggle:
Aye right Dawnie ........
Next you will be saying you don't talk for long on the phone innocent