Hi everyone,
Hope you are all well. I am looking for some suggestions please.
I am going to watch some porn with a female friend in the next few weeks, can anyone out there suggest what type of porn is good to get a female really turned on.
All your help will be appreciated and thank you
Kind regards
Paul
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Help with choosing erotic/pornography movies
I wonder why you are asking this question? Does your lady friend know she is going to be watching porn? Or is this some dodgy seduction trick you have in mind?
I ask this because the simple answer to you query would be to ask her yourself what type of porn turns her on!
The bottom line is that there is no single type of porn that appeals to women. Their tastes vary as much as men.
I ask this because the simple answer to you query would be to ask her yourself what type of porn turns her on!
The bottom line is that there is no single type of porn that appeals to women. Their tastes vary as much as men.
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Hi everyone,
Hope you are all well. I am looking for some suggestions please.
I am going to watch some porn with a female friend in the next few weeks, can anyone out there suggest what type of porn is good to get a female really turned on.
All your help will be appreciated and thank you
Kind regards
Paul
Well, that's like asking "what do women want in bed", to which the only generally-applicable answer is "a good time" ;-)
I think you'll have difficulty getting a clear-cut answer as women are so different - more so than men, IMO. In my limited experience I've known women who've been into 'ordinary' male-oriented porn, women who fucked like rabbits that couldn't bear porn, and women who've gone for 'erotica' but see porn as oppressive/tacky/unreal. On the whole, I think you'd be best steering clear of 'mechanical' porn which concentrates on tools and penetration, which is a very male-oriented way of looking at sex. Similarly, I'd be very surprised if anything with too many facial cumshots is likely to impress - from what I've read on this site many women find spunk on the face messy, uncomfortable, and, if it gets in the eyes, painful. However, I await correction by any female who actually likes this sort of stuff.... ;-)
When I was browsing for DVDs the other day, I came across a site which sells purportedly "couple-friendly" DVDs - see I can't vouch for the site as I've not bought anything from them, I just pass the info on.
In my, again limited, experience, many women are fascinated by lesbianism, which if you think of how close women friends often are is not surprising. (My current GF definitely wouldn't say no to a session with a 'butch' woman.) It might be worth seeking out real lesbian flicks, made by women for women, not the stupid 'lesbian' vids aimed at men with all the pathetic mugging to the camera - as erotic as mouldy wet cabbage.
I recently came across a vid star called Cytheria, a young attractive latina woman who's main claim to fame is that she ejaculates like a firehose, and very plainly comes like a train. She's starred in loads of vids but usually only in scenes. Her latest and best is "Cytherea iz Squirtwoman", which I got after seeing clips on , and which is fantastically erotic. Lots of real lesbian action, as well as the occasional token bloke, and some incredible squirting. Above all, she's authentic, and that can be more of a turn-on than anything else. I got my copy from from the States, but you can get it at various other online shops if you search around.
Talking of authenticity, perhaps you could also try some amateur vids, featuring Joe and Jane Ordinary getting it on. Real people having real sex and enjoying themselves is often far more erotic than a bunch of well-muscled hung professionals doing a day job.
Anyway, this is all my 2 Euro's worth, but then I'm just a bloke. It'll be interesting to read what the grrlz have to say.
Mr Licks
Sex God
Hard core works for me :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Seriously...... Lovecommando, is spot on....... does all types of porn appeal to men...... NO, so why should a certain type of porn appeal to women? Why not just ask her what her tastes are and go from there?
Seriously...... Lovecommando, is spot on....... does all types of porn appeal to men...... NO, so why should a certain type of porn appeal to women? Why not just ask her what her tastes are and go from there?
As you don't know her tastes break her in gently with something gentle and erotic - I once bought (don't laugh!) 'the lovers guide to sex" One night I brought a girl home whom i'd never met before and we were sort of in that awkward should I shouldn't I thing - so I slapped the dvd on and it worked a treat within 15 mins she was sucking my cock and dragging me to my bedroom - so subtlty is always the best policy - and it is actually quite a good vid!
Sex God
Ot you could tell her to bring her own vid.... :shock:
Hey, if someone asked me to bring a vid along, they might be well shocked about what they ended up watching :shock: :shock: :shock:
Come and have a go if you're think you're hard enough
Seriously, some good ideas have come out in this thread, I'm sure you'll get laid whatever you decide to do :mrgreen:
Hey, if someone asked me to bring a vid along, they might be well shocked about what they ended up watching :shock: :shock: :shock:
Come and have a go if you're think you're hard enough
Seriously, some good ideas have come out in this thread, I'm sure you'll get laid whatever you decide to do :mrgreen:
Get something old, badly shot and badly acted.
If you can share the experience of taking the piss out of bad porn together, then you should be in for a good night. If all the actors and actresses are all ugly, there will be no worries about her or you not living up to them, or ether of you fantasising over the cast while at it later on.
The intention is for both of you to get only mildly turned on, but have her utter the magic words "I could do a lot better than that"... and then to bed.
(Note: do NOT use this strategy if you have a big moustache, regularly wear medallions, and talk with a strong european accent)
If you can share the experience of taking the piss out of bad porn together, then you should be in for a good night. If all the actors and actresses are all ugly, there will be no worries about her or you not living up to them, or ether of you fantasising over the cast while at it later on.
The intention is for both of you to get only mildly turned on, but have her utter the magic words "I could do a lot better than that"... and then to bed.
(Note: do NOT use this strategy if you have a big moustache, regularly wear medallions, and talk with a strong european accent)
Oo that cruel Mr Discreet, I prefer the old porn myself, they may be unable to act, they may have different ideas of style, but in the good ones when their toes curled it was because what was happening was sooo damn good 
We have very little porn around these days, what is left is the 'older' stuff. The lack of acting meant that the sex was real... strange but true. There seems to be very little 'real'sex in movies any more. Anyways older 'normal' movies are best for us, laugh at the styles, and enjoy the reality of the pleasure...
We have very little porn around these days, what is left is the 'older' stuff. The lack of acting meant that the sex was real... strange but true. There seems to be very little 'real'sex in movies any more. Anyways older 'normal' movies are best for us, laugh at the styles, and enjoy the reality of the pleasure...
