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You know when someone posts a pic or avatar and says " what do you think?"
Whaddya do?
Say " hey babes love it, ya look fab!"
Whadda if you think " My god! Ergh!"
Should you say? - No one seems to!
If they ask I believe they're looking for the truth.
In the case of libra-love it'd less words, just me sitting there with an inane grin on my face biggrin (yes it's a cheap chance to attempt to charm, but I try!)
... but if it was one where u think 'ergh' then I'm not sure - depends if the truth would hurt their feelings? Try and put it in a nice way, even if it's negative..
Quote by Libra-Love
If they ask I believe they're looking for the truth.

The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/156394922641dda6295205b.jpg
WOW!!

wink
Quote by Rick85
In the case of libra-love it'd less words, just me sitting there with an inane grin on my face biggrin (yes it's a cheap chance to attempt to charm, but I try!)
... but if it was one where u think 'ergh' then I'm not sure - depends if the truth would hurt their feelings? Try and put it in a nice way, even if it's negative..

No you wouldnt - you just wouldnt post! Or would you?
Depends how much they need an opinion, if it's not a matter of life and death then no I wouldn't post :idea:
Quote by Libra-Love
If they ask I believe they're looking for the truth.

So why does no-one ever post " er, no I dont like it actually"
Perhaps every picture has appealled to everyone!
I told Vix she had lovely boobs lol
God she has lovely boobs :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
If i don't like it, I just say nothing. Don't post at all.
Nice pussy, btw, but I bet you hear that all the time wink
edit: I don't say things like "ewwww horrid" cos I was brought up to believe that if you ain't got anything nice to say then you should say nothing at all. Don't always stick to that, but I wouldn't go out of my way to offend someone by slating their pic.
Quote by Marya
If i don't like it, I just say nothing. Don't post at all.
Nice pussy, btw, but I bet you hear that all the time wink
edit: I don't say things like "ewwww horrid" cos I was brought up to believe that if you ain't got anything nice to say then you should say nothing at all. Don't always stick to that, but I wouldn't go out of my way to offend someone by slating their pic.

And I believe that is the reason most people don't comment if they don't have anything positive to say. Why antagonise?
Nicely said Marya :wink:
Quote by Happy Cats
If they ask I believe they're looking for the truth.

So why does no-one ever post " er, no I dont like it actually"
Perhaps every picture has appealled to everyone!
nope far from it however as you suggested earlier, I would sooner not post. Whilst some may well be looking for honest comment I'm not convinced that that is always the case
Quote by cu3b4ll
If they ask I believe they're looking for the truth.

The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/images/avatars/156394922641dda6295205b.jpg
WOW!!

wink why isnt Kent two mins from manchester? (drewl emoticon)
Then again people have often expressed a preference for another avatar. You don't have to slate the one a person has to say you preferred a previous one.
i did post something like this in another thread,
little miss wants me to put a picture up of me in a avatar........
.....but i really dont have the body,or the looks compared to the other guys on here
and i'm justt to honest to post a picture of some one else
help what do i do?
Quote by Libra-Love
I told Vix she had lovely boobs lol
God she has lovely boobs :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Ohh yes she does :twisted: confused: :?: :?:
Post a pic which is half you and half someone else?
Solves the problem of making a choice.. ta daaa. Guess I can't really talk, haven't had the balls to post up one of me
Personally, I was after honest opinion. of course tvs aren't to everyone's taste so I just assumed anyone who didn't like that sort of thing just wouldn't bother to comment.
Someone did call my pic "nasty" not sure if they meant it in a good or a bad way though, given the forum rolleyes
As I thought, if you dont like it or are non plussed, say nothing!
I would never say, "erghh! Horrible!"
But if they ask the question shouldnt you be honest? No! I wouldnt either!
Your silence is golden, the next question that comes up!!!
of course if the avatar causes offense it'd be better to mention so they can change it!
Quote by 2BIG2HANDLE
i did post something like this in another thread,
little miss wants me to put a picture up of me in a avatar........
.....but i really dont have the body,or the looks compared to the other guys on here
and i'm justt to honest to post a picture of some one else
help what do i do?

pssst.........bilko dont really look like that, there aint that many of us that do have a true picture up 2big.........
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of course if the avatar causes offense it'd be better to mention so they can change it!

Having said all of that your avatar is fant......................
And Marya.........................
Quote by Happy Cats
of course if the avatar causes offense it'd be better to mention so they can change it!

Having said all of that your avatar is fant......................
your ad link doesn't work by the way :cry:
I was particularly concerned about my avatar just in case any guys thought "nice ass" then realised whose ass lol :lol:
Quote by Happy Cats
of course if the avatar causes offense it'd be better to mention so they can change it!

Having said all of that your avatar is fant......................
Quote by Happy Cats
And Marya.........................

Hey, the rest of us might take offense now rolleyes
Nah...maybe not hey :lol2:
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[your ad link doesn't work by the way :cry:
I was particularly concerned about my avatar just in case any guys thought "nice ass" then realised whose ass lol :lol:

You mean that is the first time you have looked? Shame on you!!
A new improved version coming!!!
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of course if the avatar causes offense it'd be better to mention so they can change it!

Having said all of that your avatar is fant......................
your ad link doesn't work by the way :cry:
I was particularly concerned about my avatar just in case any guys thought "nice ass" then realised whose ass lol :lol:
Then again (nice arse btw) who cares what they think. This is a swinging site where everyone is welcomed if they don't start judging. If they find they liked it before they discovered who you are, why should that give them any cause for complaint? You not leading anyone up the garden path and are open and honest about who you are.
Quote by Happy Cats
You mean that is the first time you have looked? Shame on you!!
A new improved version coming!!!

glad to hear it, although you're all the way up there, and I don't tend to just look at everyone's ads if they are miles away unless I get really curious about what they look like, or what gender they are, age stuff like that lol
Quote by Libra-Love
of course if the avatar causes offense it'd be better to mention so they can change it!

Having said all of that your avatar is fant......................
Quote by Happy Cats
And Marya.........................

Hey, the rest of us might take offense now rolleyes
Nah...maybe not hey :lol2:
Yes it has to be said, your ass avatar was great, and the new one is great too!
The problem is, silence means indifferance
Quote by Happy Cats
Yes it has to be said, your ass avatar was great, and the new one is great too!
The problem is, silence means indifferance

Sometimes indifferance is far better than than the cold hard truth. Especially when that truth comes from relative strangers.