hi people I'm a new guy to this site. I just wondered if anyone wnated to chat, talk about the site and what successes they had and just normal chat. Are theremany ladies on this site genuninely interested in this sort of thing? Especially any Leeds ladies? I wouldn't mind chat with a some1 and then maybe seeing them sometime you know, casual like, in a friends capicity.
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Hiya Archangel,
Just about everyone is genuinely interested, but for many it will go no further than that. Many people join the site because they have a fantasy about swinging, and are here not to swing, but to find out if they want to make the move from fantasy into reality.
Some do, some are horrified and go, some enjoy the atmosphere but are not interested in meeting. The majority of visitors are simply interested in casual sex with little or no conversation at all, so we never see them in the forums.
There are also many differening lifestyles. Couples, singles both sexes, straight, bi, gay, TS, CD, mixtures of everything, clubbers, doggers, private meetingers, cam sex, phone sex, pm sex, e-mail sex. One on one, threesomes, foursomes, moresomes.
Some want sex with a stranger, others build friendships and have sex occasionally, others have regular swinging partners. There are those that just post stories, read stories, or look at the pictures.
Old folk, young folk, everything in between. Single, divorced, widowed, both halves of a married couple, one half of a married couple with consent, one half of a married couple without consent, couples from separate marraiges, probably some where both half of the married couple are on here without consent, and without the knowledge of the other!
There are many who are here because they struggle in some way in ordinary life due to lack of confidence or prejudice because of who they are.
And just about every trade you could mention!
and I am never writing such a long hello again!
lhk
Kat
Just about everyone is genuinely interested, but for many it will go no further than that. Many people join the site because they have a fantasy about swinging, and are here not to swing, but to find out if they want to make the move from fantasy into reality.
Some do, some are horrified and go, some enjoy the atmosphere but are not interested in meeting. The majority of visitors are simply interested in casual sex with little or no conversation at all, so we never see them in the forums.
There are also many differening lifestyles. Couples, singles both sexes, straight, bi, gay, TS, CD, mixtures of everything, clubbers, doggers, private meetingers, cam sex, phone sex, pm sex, e-mail sex. One on one, threesomes, foursomes, moresomes.
Some want sex with a stranger, others build friendships and have sex occasionally, others have regular swinging partners. There are those that just post stories, read stories, or look at the pictures.
Old folk, young folk, everything in between. Single, divorced, widowed, both halves of a married couple, one half of a married couple with consent, one half of a married couple without consent, couples from separate marraiges, probably some where both half of the married couple are on here without consent, and without the knowledge of the other!
There are many who are here because they struggle in some way in ordinary life due to lack of confidence or prejudice because of who they are.
And just about every trade you could mention!
and I am never writing such a long hello again!
lhk
Kat
Sex God
Kat, I think that just about sums up what SH is about - go and have a lie down now 8) 
Archangel, join in some of the discussions, even if they're not all about sex you'll certainly have a laugh. Let people get to know you, you might be pleasantly suprised. If you decide to stick around, why not try and attend one of the munches? If you're looking for a specific sort of interaction, such as dogging only, you may have to wait longer to get any success, but good luck nonetheless
Archangel, join in some of the discussions, even if they're not all about sex you'll certainly have a laugh. Let people get to know you, you might be pleasantly suprised. If you decide to stick around, why not try and attend one of the munches? If you're looking for a specific sort of interaction, such as dogging only, you may have to wait longer to get any success, but good luck nonetheless
Sex God
Welcome Archangel 
So which one are you then? Gabriel or Michael?
Have fun!
So which one are you then? Gabriel or Michael?
Have fun!
Hi, that has been really useful-as I am also new. I have been reading about "swinging"/sex/meetings with strangers etc for some time-But I've been scared/reticnet to follow up my interest. I suppose like many people of my age (42) -always had steady realtionships/married joiningsomething like SH is a real leap in the dark.I also realise it could appear that just after unpaid for casual sex-well if that is an outcome great-if not just to know there is life outside "conventional" is also great.
So thanks for the info to date.
Toran
So thanks for the info to date.
Toran
sit back, relax and just join in the usual conversations. Orgasminator
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I dont seem to get many replys either
Is that to a 'posting' or an advert John781?
If its a post, then you have to say something that will get a responce, it may be favourable or may not be.
If it's to an advert, it doesn't matter how many views it has received, if you don't appeal to those who have looked at it, then you won't get a reply there either.
So, you can either change your posting style and/or you add to get a responce.
If that doesn't work, I'm afraid it's back to chatting up females in your local bar or club.
Nothing happens quickly in the Swinging Heaven 'lets meet up' game. It all takes quite a long time. Sorry.
Harry0
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