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First post and first time here!!!
Must admit, the whole site looks impressive but I am a little apprehensive. Not quite sure where to go here so here's my situation.
I'm married, 26 years old and basically have no sex life - not for the want of trying! lol She just doesn't seem interested so after many many months I'm presuming she's having some fun of her own.
So, could it be considered wrong for me to try and become involved here? Seriously, I feel like the horniest person in Britain!!!!
Cheers
Bananaman
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I feel like the horniest person in Britain!!!!

So do I, but I haven't found her yet !!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: lol :lol: :lol: :lol: wink
Welcome to the show!! confused :? Take the time to read up, join in and have fun !!!
Welcome to the site
Hope you have fun chillin and joining in the banter
xx
Del and Gill
Hi and :welcome: Hope you will enjoy your stay smile
Tracy-Jayne
Welcum, enjoy yourself. Its nice here. :welcome:
Hello and welcome to the site. wave
Re your question about joining in here, there are people on here who swing without the knowledge of their partner, but to be honest it's generally not thought of as swinging, but as cheating by most.
You won't be brow beaten into leaving, but people will urge you to talk to your partner and try to resolve issues you have before you become active on the scene.
Don't get me wrong, you'll probably stand as much chance of arranging a meet as the next single guy if you decide to advertise or reply to ads while your in your current situation, I'm just telling you what the general feeling of people in the cafe seems to be (in my humble opinion).
Joining in here isn't going to be a problem as long as you follow the AUP, but the question you've posed usually leads to the same reaction.
Hope that helps. :cheers:
Oh and btw I live with the hornyest person in Britain.... wink (that's gotta be worth some brownie points :grin: lol )
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First post and first time here!!!GOOD START
Must admit, the whole site looks impressive but I am a little ALL WERE ONCE Not quite sure where to go here so here's my situation.
I'm married, 26 years old and basically have no sex life - not for the want of trying! lol She just doesn't seem interested so after many many months I'm presuming she's having some fun of her HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT FOR SURE? - SEEMS TO BE A DIRE LACK OF COMMUNICATION!
So, could it be considered wrong for me to try and become involved here?NO,NOBODY JUDGES ANYONE BUT NOT TELLING YOUR WIFE NOW COULD CAUSE TERRIBLE PAIN ALL ROUND WHEN SHE EVENTUALLY FINDS YOU OUT Seriously, I feel like the horniest person in Britain!!!!NO YOU'RE NOT - THATS ME - AND THATS A FACT!!!!!!!
Cheers
Bananaman
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Seriously, I feel like the horniest person in Britain!!!!NO YOU'RE NOT - THATS ME - AND THATS A FACT!!!!!!!

pmsl, flirty..... its horrible when that happens....you get those feelings and you're all alone....lol, what are you going to do????
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Seriously, I feel like the horniest person in Britain!!!!NO YOU'RE NOT - THATS ME - AND THATS A FACT!!!!!!!

pmsl, flirty..... its horrible when that happens....you get those feelings and you're all alone....lol, what are you going to do????
Can I phone a friend?
Ask the audience??
50/50???
So, could it be considered wrong for me to try and become involved here?

hey it's only a website! until you make it more than a website that is!
Seriously, I feel like the horniest person in Britain!!!!

so do i! think i've already met her! :smug:
:welcome: to SH bananman!
i'm not gonna try and advise you, cos i don't wear your shoes . . . but talking to your partner, and to the rest of the good people on here, ain't a bad strategy.
have fun!
neil x x x ;)
Hello and welcome!
Thanks for the replies and what a response!!!
I think I'll play it by ear at present as she's not really someone you can approach about such things. Let's see how it goes!
Did you pick the name bananaman for any particular reason? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Welcome to the Site.......I hope you join in and have lots of fun on here.....
But, without sounding pretentious, I would recommend you talking to your other half before trying to get active in Swinging....keeping a secret from the person you're closest to can be really hard.
Hello mate, its fun here & you also look like you've started getting a bit of advice about your situation. Talking is definitely good! Enjoy.
Hi and welcome to the site have fun xxx
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Did you pick the name bananaman for any particular reason? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:

:lol: It was the first thing that sprang to mind! My wife gave it a nickname of "tax"