HELP! new to all this. Good-looking open minded SE based fellow - anything going on ce soir?!!!
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hi all! new to this site....any craick?!!
James,
allow me to be gentle and offer some advice.
You arrived in the cafe just a couple of days ago, few people if anyone knows anything about you, . Not that we want all the gory details but it would be nice if would at least attempt to say some more aboout yourself.
W know you are from the SE ( its a big place) and that you are male...
Consider this ... if you wandered into a pub where you were not known to anyone and yelled out ( I appreciate you did not shout) anyone knows wnats on tonight, I suppose you would agree with me that most qwould turn to look and then turn back to what they were doing before.
Whereas if you had come up to the bar and perhaps started to join in with what appeared to be an open conversation you may have got some interest....who knows you may even have got lucky first time... unlikely but not unheard of.
James there have been so many nebies breezing in of later all saying hi and expecting the world to stop ....
Welcome, come on in read some of the most recent threads.... the ones immediately below the stickies, try to get a feel for who is who, see what makes people tick, what makes people laugh and what annoys people.
Read ALL the Stickies, they contain some useful advise Browse the information pages see top left
If you want to propose a meet post an Ad in the Ads section but don't hold your breath, or post message in the Lets meet section ( below the cafe in the forum)
Enjoy being here and allow people to get to know you....and get to know people. Some people have been here months and are still learning....
Have a good time James and best wisjes
Gman
allow me to be gentle and offer some advice.
You arrived in the cafe just a couple of days ago, few people if anyone knows anything about you, . Not that we want all the gory details but it would be nice if would at least attempt to say some more aboout yourself.
W know you are from the SE ( its a big place) and that you are male...
Consider this ... if you wandered into a pub where you were not known to anyone and yelled out ( I appreciate you did not shout) anyone knows wnats on tonight, I suppose you would agree with me that most qwould turn to look and then turn back to what they were doing before.
Whereas if you had come up to the bar and perhaps started to join in with what appeared to be an open conversation you may have got some interest....who knows you may even have got lucky first time... unlikely but not unheard of.
James there have been so many nebies breezing in of later all saying hi and expecting the world to stop ....
Welcome, come on in read some of the most recent threads.... the ones immediately below the stickies, try to get a feel for who is who, see what makes people tick, what makes people laugh and what annoys people.
Read ALL the Stickies, they contain some useful advise Browse the information pages see top left
If you want to propose a meet post an Ad in the Ads section but don't hold your breath, or post message in the Lets meet section ( below the cafe in the forum)
Enjoy being here and allow people to get to know you....and get to know people. Some people have been here months and are still learning....
Have a good time James and best wisjes
Gman
In a nutshell mate, you may well be a great fella, all the GOOD things in life, and not one of the assholes we ALL meet every day. The fact is because people on here are seen to be more open minded, many assume them to be so dead easy, one only has to say hello and they bed hop because they are SO desperate. In fact morals are high and the way to go is a gmann says. Your inner self will shine through I am sure if you are a goodguy, and if not well be prepaired to be a little dissapointed...
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