I've been lurking about in the background looking in from time to time and i thought it best to bite the bullet and introduce myself. Myself anf my gf have recently got more and more curious about the 'scene' to the point where we're taking tentative steps towards actually doing something about it. I think that, being a man, i would enjoy pretty much any experience within reason but i want to make sure that my gf enjoys whatever we do eventually get up to 100%... at the moment she's very sure about it but i would hate for us to do something and for her to feel a little slummy about it afterwards - if that happened for me it would have been a big mistake. For that reason i've been looking carefully at what options we have... have any of you got any views on Fever parties?? and would they be a good place to go for first timers?? or would it be best to maybe start down the road of making contact with say, to start with, a bi-girl for something a little more private and 'safe'.
you views would be very much appreciated...
thanks.
