I don't have any advice for you, but I'm sure someone knowledgable will be along in a minute. In the meantime, hello :welcome: - don't feel shy to dive in and start chatting!
Hello Helen and Graham,
:welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven.
Before you both decide to go any further, think serious of the emotional consequences to yourselves and your relationship. Once done, it can never be taken back.
Have fun and enjoy.
Hi Helen
Welcome :welcome: you're find most on here a friendly bunch.
hiya helen and graham
:welcome: to the site.
no advice i'm afraid, other than pull up a pew and take your time with it. hope you have fun here in the meantime.
neil x x x ;)
Hey and :welcome: Enjoy
LB
Hello Helen and Graham...... yeeeheee :bounce: another couple from Herts :bounce: go on........go on........ :bounce: ..tell the buggers on here, that we have Unicorns and babbling streams of Strawberry cordial down this way....
welcome to the cafe from mr and mrs davej :welcome: ...dont do advice I'm afraid, but stick around in here for a while and have some fun ..
Welcome to the site if you stick around you will make friends in no time have fun in the cafe and the chat room and then decide if you want to go any further if you don’t you can still chat to people there’s no harm in that the main thing is you take things at your own pace me and Chris started off by chatting to new people in the chat room and took it from there but remember there is no pressure
Molly xx
and :welcome: you don't have to do anything with anyone just be friendly. 
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Lovely!
