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His fantasy is proving hard to make happen
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Sex God
Maybe it's just me, but I'd be put off by the idea that this is 'his' fantasy. If I were meeting a couple I think I'd like to feel it was something both of you were into.
Quote by noladreams
Maybe it's just me, but I'd be put off by the idea that this is 'his' fantasy. If I were meeting a couple I think I'd like to feel it was something both of you were into.
No, it's not just you, I think a lot of people would feel the same.
And yes it will be very hard to find sucha woman. If it's something you really want to happen maybe hire an escort?
Quote by Srne
And yes it will be very hard to find sucha woman. If it's something you really want to happen maybe hire an escort?
I don't think they need turn to paid services just yet
Seriously though, voyeurism isn't uncommon in women so why not try advertising for what you want? Andy's advice above is good I think, be really clear about what you're looking for - and maybe out some thought into what's in it for the female joining you too (a common complaint amongst single females is that they are approached as something of a performing seal e.g. my partners wants another woman to do x, y and z).
Good luck!
OK
so we all want things. Sometimes we do get what we ask for. Sometimes it just happens. I did have an ad looking for a couple to play with. It was when I was not looking that it happened; at a party, we were just chatting. We got to like eachother and it just took off.
Yes it was a swing party, but as I said it just happened when we were all relaxed. In fact none of my mets have come from ads. All from chatting in the cafe and chatrooms, and as I said parties.
Just keep asking, but don't get to single minded.
Travis
so we all want things. Sometimes we do get what we ask for. Sometimes it just happens. I did have an ad looking for a couple to play with. It was when I was not looking that it happened; at a party, we were just chatting. We got to like eachother and it just took off.
Yes it was a swing party, but as I said it just happened when we were all relaxed. In fact none of my mets have come from ads. All from chatting in the cafe and chatrooms, and as I said parties.
Just keep asking, but don't get to single minded.
Travis
I believe the chances of success for all of us are directly proportional to how many swingers we have met and how often we see them.
So if you have never met any other swingers and you never go to places where swingers gather other than online your chances are very small. If you know a lot of swingers and get yourselves out and about your chances are pretty much odds on.
Do what everybody else said and if this fantasy is important to you invest some time going to places where other swingers go such as clubs munches and socials.
Frankly the easiest way to achieve what you want is to go to a club and shag in a public room. I've lost count of the number of times lasses have watched and joined in.
So if you have never met any other swingers and you never go to places where swingers gather other than online your chances are very small. If you know a lot of swingers and get yourselves out and about your chances are pretty much odds on.
Do what everybody else said and if this fantasy is important to you invest some time going to places where other swingers go such as clubs munches and socials.
Frankly the easiest way to achieve what you want is to go to a club and shag in a public room. I've lost count of the number of times lasses have watched and joined in.
Orgasminator
Quote by Louiseheidi
He would really like a woman to watch us and record us and then join in IF she wanted, but it is hard to find such a woman - any ideas??
You got it easy girl, you could be trying to arrange my zero gravity facial fantasy - and thats one from the 'easy' list.
I agree with some of the previous posters - ask for the
I cant see too many girls agreeing to fuck but turning down the 'please video us first' request, it seems a bit odd as an advert though ;)
Sex God
Quote by Srne
Maybe it's just me, but I'd be put off by the idea that this is 'his' fantasy. If I were meeting a couple I think I'd like to feel it was something both of you were into.
No, it's not just you, I think a lot of people would feel the same.
And yes it will be very hard to find sucha woman. If it's something you really want to happen maybe hire an escort?
Partners often partake in fantasys that maybe are not entirely their bag. Wont mean they dont enjoy it to an extent, but to expect two halves of a couple of individuals to be 100% into every fantasy its a tad unrealistic.
Sex God
My fantasy was too watch two women so my Mrs took me shopping with our daughter :cry:
Sex God
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Master of Sex
we always share our fantasies and when we can we like to make them happen for each other....we like to see each other having as much pleasure as possible...we both get off on knowing each other is horny and having fun....most fantasies are more one sided than they are mutual....but that doesnt mean both parties cant totally enjoy them and just accept them as fun for all....we know a few women who would be up for the thing originally posted..i do understand that a lot would feel uneasy about that though..maybe we are just lucky that all we want is for both of us to have as much fun as possible however we want to get it ...hedonistic view of swinging maybe for some lol
