Tank you all for lookin at this xxxxx
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Hiya all this tracey this is there fist time am doin a msg on this on my own b/f con out for a bit so am sort of new cos lee types wht i wht to say so ill just thort to say HI !!!
Tank you all for lookin at this xxxxx
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/491175.html#491175
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Hiya all this tracey this is there fist time am doin a msg on this on my own b/f con out for a bit so am sort of new cos lee types wht i wht to say so ill just thort to say HI !!!
Tank you all for lookin at this xxxxx
Can someone help me to make sense of this? :lol:
Nope - stop the translation work when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts???
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Hiya all this tracey this is there fist time am doin a msg on this on my own b/f con out for a bit so am sort of new cos lee types wht i wht to say so ill just thort to say HI !!!
Tank you all for lookin at this xxxxx
Can someone help me to make sense of this? :lol:
Nope - stop the translation work when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts???
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:Jags,
Send them to the Dungeon in the Slut Party. Dino can deal with them :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Hang on Jags thats thoroughly out of order! Male usually types on this and my g/f thought she'd have a go on her own - at least she wasn't rude and out of order about things.
That is completely insensitive, disappointing and not what we've come to expect from the site :shock:
FYI she suffers from Dyslexia and found it hard to get up the courage to even post and get involved on her own.
We've never insulted anyone on the site and have only noted some very bland, very non-inventive posts on the "Let's Meet Up" section.
Just disappointing...
That is completely insensitive, disappointing and not what we've come to expect from the site :shock:
FYI she suffers from Dyslexia and found it hard to get up the courage to even post and get involved on her own.
We've never insulted anyone on the site and have only noted some very bland, very non-inventive posts on the "Let's Meet Up" section.
Just disappointing...
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Quote by 3someinpreston
lol sorry not very gud at spelinoops bare with me plz!!!!
lee typed that msg erley on cus he found the msg from new people silly lol
Hi Tracey - good to see you in here. Well done for trying, but people who struggle with their spelling and ALSO write (partly) in text speak really do test the patience of some of the people in here. Nice avatar pic though.
Mike.
Thats absolute bollocks. It's not an insult at anyones disability, its just a crack at a serious misunderstanding of correct ad posting.
To have a go at somebodys problem, whether it be weight, spelling impairment, disfigurement, or anything else, is just plain stupidity and shows ignorance as a person.
How can somebody in the position of Moderator act in such a way? Surely a simple polite message such as "Sorry but its hard for other members to understand what you are saying" or you could have locked the post and sent a PM to her. Either way is a 100 times better than simply trying to get a cheap laugh.
It's the only time on this site i've seen anything this ridiculous, and to point to another thread which was entirely a joke, which would hurt nobodies feelings, to try and defend this stupidity, is absurd.
When you become Mr. or Mrs. Perfect - then you can point fingers and laugh.
To have a go at somebodys problem, whether it be weight, spelling impairment, disfigurement, or anything else, is just plain stupidity and shows ignorance as a person.
How can somebody in the position of Moderator act in such a way? Surely a simple polite message such as "Sorry but its hard for other members to understand what you are saying" or you could have locked the post and sent a PM to her. Either way is a 100 times better than simply trying to get a cheap laugh.
It's the only time on this site i've seen anything this ridiculous, and to point to another thread which was entirely a joke, which would hurt nobodies feelings, to try and defend this stupidity, is absurd.
When you become Mr. or Mrs. Perfect - then you can point fingers and laugh.
MikeNorth said: Hi Tracey - good to see you in here. Well done for trying, but people who struggle with their spelling and ALSO write (partly) in text speak really do test the patience of some of the people in here. Nice avatar pic though.
EXACTLY the way it should have been addressed. Thanks Mike
Unless mistaken Jags, if you look upwards, i think you'll find a few smiley faces rolling around laughing there heads off at your own joke.
"Nope - stop thetranslationwork when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts???"
If that isn't insensitive and aimed at the spelling content then i don't know what is.
"Nope - stop thetranslationwork when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts???"
If that isn't insensitive and aimed at the spelling content then i don't know what is.
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Unless mistaken Jags, if you look upwards, i think you'll find a few smiley faces rolling around laughing there heads off at your own joke.
"Nope - stop the translation work when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts???"
If that isn't insensitive and aimed at the spelling content then i don't know what is.
Unless mistaken you're absolutely wrong 3someinpreston but don't let that stop you! My original comment wasn't laughing and then I responded to someone else.
Move it along, eh???
PS - don't confuse Jags the person with Jags the Mod - two different people and both allowed a voice. Wouldn't want to infringe anyone's rights now, would we??
:dunno: I didn't say "original" comment did i? And with the post that that comment is "originally" made, for the record this post...:
"Nope - stop the translation work when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts??? "
... You ARE laughing.
I don't wish to enter a slanging match with you. All I will say is that if you can honestly look at the post and see anything untoward or any intended rudeness about it, then i will hold my hands up and say i'm wrong.
For those unable to understand it, which i accept will be quite a few, here is the "translated" version:
"Hiya all, this is Tracey. This is the first I am doing a message on my own on here. My b/f has gone out for a bit, and i'm sort of new to this, as Lee usually types what i want to say! So I just thought i'd say hi! Thank you all for looking at this xxxxxx"
And the follow up message:
"Lol sorry i'm not very good at spelling bare with me please! Lee typed that message earlier on because he found some of the messages from the new people silly lol"
Anything malicious in there that deserved that response please feel free to PM us.
Consider the matter closed. I never usually flare up like this but i cannot stand people who attack peoples weaknesses.
"Nope - stop the translation work when I leave school. Think it's another one for the locked up syndrome. And they have the cheek to moan about bad posts??? "
... You ARE laughing.
I don't wish to enter a slanging match with you. All I will say is that if you can honestly look at the post and see anything untoward or any intended rudeness about it, then i will hold my hands up and say i'm wrong.
For those unable to understand it, which i accept will be quite a few, here is the "translated" version:
"Hiya all, this is Tracey. This is the first I am doing a message on my own on here. My b/f has gone out for a bit, and i'm sort of new to this, as Lee usually types what i want to say! So I just thought i'd say hi! Thank you all for looking at this xxxxxx"
And the follow up message:
"Lol sorry i'm not very good at spelling
bare with me please! Lee typed that message earlier on because he found some of the messages from the new people silly lol"Anything malicious in there that deserved that response please feel free to PM us.
Consider the matter closed. I never usually flare up like this but i cannot stand people who attack peoples weaknesses.
I NEVER intend rudeness unless it's immediately obvious!! Take more time to get to know people. We have already had a PM chat about your game playing so, as I said before, don't involve me in it. You're trying to manipulate the wrong person.
Grow up - I did not attack a weakness, if I had then you would certainly know about it, but it's not how Mods, or Jags, operate. Opening up nonsense is a different mattter. I am a teacher and I can recognise dyslexic writing at 50 paces....
Now... your serve.
I never usually flare up like this but i cannot stand people who attack peoples weaknesses.
Grow up - I did not attack a weakness, if I had then you would certainly know about it, but it's not how Mods, or Jags, operate. Opening up nonsense is a different mattter. I am a teacher and I can recognise dyslexic writing at 50 paces....
Now... your serve.
There is no "game playing".
We asked you on the PM where the "Land of the Free Speaking" is because its under your avatar, and apparently where you are from! It was a simple friendly PM about an observation I had made - what the hell is wrong with that?!
We're not here to "play games" - we're hear, like i'm sure you are, to chat to people, get along, have fun along the way and participate in the community. I have absolutely no desire at all to upset, aggravate or "play games".
You are entitled to your voice and thats fine. But any decent person, like one person has already on this thread, would have realised that they had said something out of line when it was clear offence had been caused, and apologised.
Take reference to the precious thread in the "Lets Meet Up" section you refer to. I apologised straight away when i figured any offence at all could have been taken from my comments.
Don't read too much into a misinterpreted PM - it was simply a humourous friendly PM to somebody who we had noted had posted some pretty funny threads on the forum and we thought we'd say hi! That is all! It just goes to show the only reason you are being so petty and malicious on this issue is completely because of that PM.
Now thats what i call "game playing".
Game set match!
P.S. Being a teacher you should be able to recognise the lack of punctuation, partly formed words and semi-understanding of linguistical rules. Very few teachers and psychologists can recognise every type of dyslexia, of which there are many. It's just naive of you to try and condescend. Thats a very poor form of "teaching".
We asked you on the PM where the "Land of the Free Speaking" is because its under your avatar, and apparently where you are from! It was a simple friendly PM about an observation I had made - what the hell is wrong with that?!
We're not here to "play games" - we're hear, like i'm sure you are, to chat to people, get along, have fun along the way and participate in the community. I have absolutely no desire at all to upset, aggravate or "play games".
You are entitled to your voice and thats fine. But any decent person, like one person has already on this thread, would have realised that they had said something out of line when it was clear offence had been caused, and apologised.
Take reference to the precious thread in the "Lets Meet Up" section you refer to. I apologised straight away when i figured any offence at all could have been taken from my comments.
Don't read too much into a misinterpreted PM - it was simply a humourous friendly PM to somebody who we had noted had posted some pretty funny threads on the forum and we thought we'd say hi! That is all! It just goes to show the only reason you are being so petty and malicious on this issue is completely because of that PM.
Now thats what i call "game playing".
Game set match!
P.S. Being a teacher you should be able to recognise the lack of punctuation, partly formed words and semi-understanding of linguistical rules. Very few teachers and psychologists can recognise every type of dyslexia, of which there are many. It's just naive of you to try and condescend. Thats a very poor form of "teaching".
It's a discussion and a forum board is essentially a discussion board.
All i want you to do is accept that what you said is potentially hurtful to somebodies feelings.
Being a teacher, imagine you are marking somebodies work and you say "nope sorry, not doing that, i don't do translation!" to a dyslexic student!?
Of course you wouldn't, so what makes you think you can do it in here?
P.S. who asks for new balls when the match is declared over?
All i want you to do is accept that what you said is potentially hurtful to somebodies feelings.
Being a teacher, imagine you are marking somebodies work and you say "nope sorry, not doing that, i don't do translation!" to a dyslexic student!?
Of course you wouldn't, so what makes you think you can do it in here?
P.S. who asks for new balls when the match is declared over?
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NO teacher would do that to someone, but they would also know before marking that the person WAS dyslexic.
Anything anyone says has the potential to hurt someone's feelings
Anything anyone says has the potential to hurt someone's feelings
Quote by 3someinpreston
It's a discussion and a forum board is essentially a discussion board.
All i want you to do is accept that what you said is potentially hurtful to somebodies feelings.
Being a teacher, imagine you are marking somebodies work and you say "nope sorry, not doing that, i don't do translation!" to a dyslexic student!?
Of course you wouldn't, so what makes you think you can do it in here?
Why do you think that only YOU can make flippant comments - it's OK if you do it to others but not if others do it to you??? Now that is funny!!
NOTHING I said was meant to be hurtful - told you that more than once. Accept or reject, it's the best you're getting.
Dyslexic students get help. That's part of what I do.
Wrong fight.
We accept you maybe never "meant" to be hurtful, and that you wouldn't intend to. I know that anyway because i've read your posts and i know you are an intelligent and funny person, so thats why it caught a nerve really! if it was someone who was just trying to agitate then i'd laugh it off.
I'm really not mental, nor immature, nor "flippant". The comment in the "Lets Meet Up" section has been made by you and other moderators in other guises many many times. Those comments couldn't actually hurt anyones feelings, but these ones maybe could.
Still, no hard feelings Jags, and the last thing i wanted to do was to be involved in such a discussion.
All i will say is that the PM was really intended to be a friendly hi, nothing more.
I'm really not mental, nor immature, nor "flippant". The comment in the "Lets Meet Up" section has been made by you and other moderators in other guises many many times. Those comments couldn't actually hurt anyones feelings, but these ones maybe could.
Still, no hard feelings Jags, and the last thing i wanted to do was to be involved in such a discussion.
All i will say is that the PM was really intended to be a friendly hi, nothing more.
Just so we are clear on some points here:
I have NEVER said that post in LMU are dire - yet you, after less than a fortnight here, did.
I AM staggered that you made that comment and then posted the first post. I'm allowed that feeling.
I don't ever hold grudges but will argue my corner when made to. I don't back down easily cos I never ever post flippantly (unless overpowered by a bevvie but that doesn't apply tonight).
Enjoy your time here, it's worth it. Great friends are out there for you... embrace them
I have NEVER said that post in LMU are dire - yet you, after less than a fortnight here, did.
I AM staggered that you made that comment and then posted the first post. I'm allowed that feeling.
I don't ever hold grudges but will argue my corner when made to. I don't back down easily cos I never ever post flippantly (unless overpowered by a bevvie but that doesn't apply tonight).
Enjoy your time here, it's worth it. Great friends are out there for you... embrace them
lol noooo i went the shop for wine and she was on , and i had left Swinging Heaven up so she decided to have a post on it for a change. So when i came in she asked me "how do i check if anyones replied to a message?" and i just said "click refresh till the thing turns blue" so she did and then i saw the replies and it caught me off guard.
We are genuine, but when ya mention it like that i can see why you think its a wind up! All i can say is we have a cam, a phone, and pics to prove who we are - thats all ya can do really. Theres no other way you can prove who your typing to is real.
We are genuine, but when ya mention it like that i can see why you think its a wind up! All i can say is we have a cam, a phone, and pics to prove who we are - thats all ya can do really. Theres no other way you can prove who your typing to is real.
