Hello..
I was wondering whether anyone else here, feels sometimes that the romance(?) is sometimes missing from swinging... Having been to a few parties and clubs etc... it sometimes seems all just a bit too clinical.. or is that just me?
It would be nice to be able to kiss and touch and do all that stuff (which,for me at least) makes sex itself so much more enjoyable.. However, would that make people feel uncomfortable? its seems that most partners are happy to share their own partners for sex.. but possibly feel uncomfortable with a more ... er...'making love' approach.. Sorry If im not making much sense here but I hope you can get the essence of what I'm on about..
Personally for me at least, it is as much as a turn on for me to see my partner being psychologically thrilled as well as being physically enjoyed...
So... does that perhaps make me not really a swinger?
Oh.. also is it ok, etiquette wise... for a single male to ask to be invited to a 'munch' or should one just wait and see...
Also... and promise this is the last thing.... Is there a best way to meet someone for a romantic relationship - but where swinging is also very much part of that relationship..
Thanks in advance for any thoughts on any of this..
Steve
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Hmmm...
Sex God
We didn't think there was supposed to be any 'romance' in swinging - we have that with each other; it's just sex with other people, after all. Maybe you mean 'intimacy' - not sure if that describes better what you meant (kisses, cuddles etc.) ? This is just my thought and may not be what you mean - I don't want to get lambasted for suggesting alternative vocabulary.
There's loads of single men go to munches regularly; you just have to fit the criteria set out by the munch organiser with regard to cut off date and sometimes frequency of posting.
Good luck!
There's loads of single men go to munches regularly; you just have to fit the criteria set out by the munch organiser with regard to cut off date and sometimes frequency of posting.
Good luck!
Sex God
Romance Dead? Not where I was on Saturday, the air was thick with it. Or was that smoke, I've never been able to tell the two apart.
John
John
Sex God
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One of the reasons I have given up swinging as a single and meeting guys from this site is because of the lack of love-making opportunities. Vanilla dating seems more appealing to one as affectionate as myself. So far so good.......
And here was I about to send you a dozen red roses.
John
Sex God
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One of the reasons I have given up swinging as a single and meeting guys from this site is because of the lack of love-making opportunities. Vanilla dating seems more appealing to one as affectionate as myself. So far so good.......
And here was I about to send you a dozen red roses.
John
Awwwwwwwww John you are sweet
I have also dated.. in a vanilla sense.. as my swinging partner is romantically attached to someone else.. but I'd feel awful to date someone and not share with them my swinging desires.... So, for me... 'she' would have to be a swinger too...
(Wonderknobhead ....in French.. translates as something incurably romantic... )
(Wonderknobhead ....in French.. translates as something incurably romantic... )
Sex God
Your vanilla date might just turn out to be a wild bi fem who loves to swing - you never know!
Sex God
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Don't let me stop you mate! I like the long-stemmed ones, by the way.......
I shall have them ready for next time I see you.
John
xxx
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Mmmm, Is romance dead?
Rhet Butler, Casanaova, Wondernobhead - just rolls off the tongue doesnt it?
Sorry mate - hang on a bit then you can go to munches.
:laughabove: ...guess that counts me out for the romantic approach as well
Bugger, perhaps if I come back as julio doubleglasius orlike it may do the trick :P
Sex God
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Awwwwwwwww John you are sweet
Thank you Frecklebird. I hope to meet you soon.
John
Sex God
Quote by SunBunny
Le bouton de la tête miracle.
I'm swooning as I write.......
Intelligent as well as beautiful, what more could a man want?
John
Sex God
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my phone number?
If only
John
Sex God
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See.. it works!.... I sound.. almost exotic!
the French... just have a way with words..
In Spanish "Cullo polla maravillo" would cover it!
:grin: :grin:
