why is that i am so trusting and honest..... and yet dont get the same degree of both in return?
An age-old question i'm sure..........
equi-princess xxx
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Honesty......
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why is that i am so trusting and honest..... and yet dont get the same degree of both in return?
An age-old question i'm sure..........
equi-princess xxx
It depends on how you look at life .......... is the glass half full or half empty???
For me personally, I have a policy of 'I will like you until YOUgive me a reason not to' and once that trust is broken it's gone forever.
Quote by Wishmaster
why is that i am so trusting and honest..... and yet dont get the same degree of both in return?
An age-old question i'm sure..........
equi-princess xxx
It depends on how you look at life .......... is the glass half full or half empty???
For me personally, I have a policy of 'I will like you until YOUgive me a reason not to' and once that trust is broken it's gone forever.
you took the words right out of my mouth whishy
Sex God
Yeah, but then there are times when you meet someone and you just don't trust them, for no other reason that a huge gut feeling about the person. Then what?
Hola Equi, my chat buddy
God only knows the answer to this. I've been the same in the past - honest and trusting but a series of bad experiences has left me feeling untrusting of people.
I think I'm still as honest and open as I can be because it doesn't serve anyone not to be.
I don't think you should change yourself to suit other's bad traits but perhaps be a little less naive??
Nice to see ya, chicken
God only knows the answer to this. I've been the same in the past - honest and trusting but a series of bad experiences has left me feeling untrusting of people.
I think I'm still as honest and open as I can be because it doesn't serve anyone not to be.
I don't think you should change yourself to suit other's bad traits but perhaps be a little less naive??
Nice to see ya, chicken
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Yeah, but then there are times when you meet someone and you just don't trust them, for no other reason that a huge gut feeling about the person. Then what?
Aha! Yes, i know this one. Although I don't always practise what i preach, I think you should always go with gut feeling. I believe in natural instinct. I think it's something passed down from our prehistoric ancestors and we shouldn't ignore it. It's there for a reason - survival!
Sexpert
Being someone who is too honest for my own good I think you will always find people who think it is better to lie about themselves,but they always get found out in the end so honesty is still the best policy in my book. 
Sex God
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why is that i am so trusting and honest..... and yet dont get the same degree of both in return?
An age-old question i'm sure..........
equi-princess xxx
At least you can sleep at night, thats all that matters.
Orgasminator
i think honesty is the best policy it annoyes me seeing people pretending to be some thing there not like many people say why pretend you will always get fo und out in the end you are what you are and then the respect has gone
Master of Sex
Quote by Wishmaster
For me personally, I have a policy of 'I will like you until YOU give me a reason not to' and once that trust is broken it's gone forever.
im with you on that one wishmaster, that statement goes for all of my life not just the trust thing, i make my own mind up about folk and dont listen to gossip, untill they do something to me then they are fine
Honesty is the best policy
if not your just a lying bastard!
Quote by equi-princess
why is that i am so trusting and honest..... and yet dont get the same degree of both in return?
An age-old question i'm sure..........
equi-princess xxx
I believe there is a definate link between honesty and wisdom. If you are wise, then you will know that dishonesty will always fail in the end. There are unfortunately many who have either yet to grasp that fact, or are genuinely stupid enough to think dishonesty is clever.
You are obviously of a greater intellect than those who were dishonest. You carry on being honest my dear, but try not to be so trusting. And never trust a man who thinks he is clever. ;)
I think its time for my meds! :shock:
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For me personally, I have a policy of 'I will like you until YOU give me a reason not to' and once that trust is broken it's gone forever.
im with you on that one wishmaster, that statement goes for all of my life not just the trust thing, i make my own mind up about folk and dont listen to gossip, untill they do something to me then they are fine
Honesty is the best policy
if not your just a lying bastard!
I'm with Wishy and Nicola&Alan - except - Once broken, I'm not convinced it's gone forever.
We write and talk on SH a great deal of about honesty, respect and tolerance. A word and attitude that seems a little thin on the ground is forgiveness.
But back to honesty.
I firmly believe in both honesty and openness. One or two have heard me say O&H?
Anyone is welcome to ask me any question they feel the need, and I will not be offended by the question. I reserve the right not to answer, but any answer I give will be a straight one. The overriding caveat is that if they ask, they have to be prepared to hear the answer.
And let's not forget - honesty is about acts or deeds just as much as it is about the spoken word.
Equi-princess, I hope you are able to resolve whatever prompted you start this thread.
