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Warming the Bed
I agree with postie, stick around and keep looking, it took us six month to finally find the "right" couples just for us to meet withou the action. But that's not far away now, I can feel it in my bones! LOL (I wish I could feel it in someone elses bones, tho).
I think the best tip is not to consider yourself as "newbies" - everyone on this board is in the same boat!
Don't look to jump straight into the ocean so to speak. If you stay around then eventually you will not feel like newbies, feel involved and speak to "established" members as well as other recent additions - such as me and the missus!
Just enjoy, don't take things seriously, take tips and advice from those in the know, and take one step at a time
Don't look to jump straight into the ocean so to speak. If you stay around then eventually you will not feel like newbies, feel involved and speak to "established" members as well as other recent additions - such as me and the missus!
Just enjoy, don't take things seriously, take tips and advice from those in the know, and take one step at a time
We just want to say thank you for replying - it makes us feel better just knowing there are people like you all on here who take the time to reply - we do appreciate it.
We will just have to be patient and wait for the right couple/guy/situation to come along. We are probably sounding desperate as we took a long time to firstly admit to ourselves that we both enjoy the thought of swinging/3somes and moresomes and much longer to pluck up the courage to place an add and when we finally decided to go all out for our first experience we rather naively expected it would happen immediately!
However, the worst possible scenario would be to rush ahead without thinking and end up having a bad experience which we know would put us off completely - we want it to be great because we both want it to be a part of our lives long term.
We are thinking of maybe testing the water by trying a party instead but are unsure which one would be best for us, i.e. similar aged couples, laid back and friendly club with no pressure - any suggestions welcome.
Thanks again guys.
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We will just have to be patient and wait for the right couple/guy/situation to come along. We are probably sounding desperate as we took a long time to firstly admit to ourselves that we both enjoy the thought of swinging/3somes and moresomes and much longer to pluck up the courage to place an add and when we finally decided to go all out for our first experience we rather naively expected it would happen immediately!
However, the worst possible scenario would be to rush ahead without thinking and end up having a bad experience which we know would put us off completely - we want it to be great because we both want it to be a part of our lives long term.
We are thinking of maybe testing the water by trying a party instead but are unsure which one would be best for us, i.e. similar aged couples, laid back and friendly club with no pressure - any suggestions welcome.
Thanks again guys.
xxxxxxxxxx
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We just want to say thank you for replying - it makes us feel better just knowing there are people like you all on here who take the time to reply - we do appreciate it.
We will just have to be patient and wait for the right couple/guy/situation to come along. We are probably sounding desperate as we took a long time to firstly admit to ourselves that we both enjoy the thought of swinging/3somes and moresomes and much longer to pluck up the courage to place an add and when we finally decided to go all out for our first experience we rather naively expected it would happen immediately!
However, the worst possible scenario would be to rush ahead without thinking and end up having a bad experience which we know would put us off completely - we want it to be great because we both want it to be a part of our lives long term.
We are thinking of maybe testing the water by trying a party instead but are unsure which one would be best for us, i.e. similar aged couples, laid back and friendly club with no pressure - any suggestions welcome.
Thanks again guys.
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Quote by postie
Firstly welcome...
not really good advice, but if you stick around for long enough, you WILL meet other couples in the same boat as you.
But you are in the best place to find someone.
and have fun..
Ahem, that's the best advice available!!
