Hi all,
Newley married here and I'm looking how I can get my wife involved with the life style.
Anyone have any advice?
Cuckoldress / Hotwife Wanted.
Hi, and :welcome: to the forum.
There's only one way to get her involved: talk to her and ask her if she wants to be involved. Any other way would be underhanded, immoral even. ;)
it requires patience and of course her consent, but I managed to convince myself and my wife that it was a good idea to share her by introducing scenarios ding our own sessions in bed.
A few ideas crashed and burned but finally we realised the idea of her having more than one pair of hands appreciating her gorgeous body, with many erogenous zones and me being able to watch her enjoy a cock of better proportion than mine was too good not to pursue.
It took a while to find the right man that we could all trust and when we all agreed she would make the rules of engagement and how far we would progress on any get together we both felt confident enough to start on the journey .
The tale is still on the story section here under my name and you could get her to read it if! ( You could print it if you don't want to admit being on this site.
Good luck, be patient it is soooo worth it if you are a strong couple.
Horace
Graham,
I would of thought the way forward would be to chat about fantasies.....ask her what her are..( you never know she may surprise you ).....then you tell her yours...mentioning 3 somes and swinging etc.....
I am sure you will be able to gauge the reaction, and either drop the subject like a hot stone, or start to progress further.
Good luck, either way.
Hi
It took a long time to get my wife interested.
Started by asking her after we had had sex sometimes if she ever fantasised about being wih someone else, of course she said no.
Then I would ask her if she would like to have sex with another guy, again she always said no!
After a few months I would tell her I get turned on thinking of her with another guy, she initially said said no way but then she started to soften a little asking why it turned me on thinking of her having fun with another guy.
Eventually she softened still further saying that she doubted it would happen. I put some pics of her on an amateur wives site and she was flattered with the comments the pics received.
We started going into the chat room on the site ad chatted to a few of the guys.
I work shifts and was on nights, I came in at 7am and she was up and smiling like a kid in a sweet shop, she told me thatshe had been chatting with a guy and they had really got on and asked if I was really ok with her meeting someone for casual fun. I couldnt help myself I was over the moon and told her to go for it. She was not sure about meeting on her own and the guy said he enjoyed playing with wives while hubby watched.
That was 8 yrs or so ago and we have had some fab times with her having great times with guys whilei watch.
Take it slow, plant the seeds and she will come round in the end
It seems the OP has left the building.