how can i find a sex buddie

2 Jul 2004

iv been wiv my partner for 6 years now and for the last 3 of them she has had no interest in sex what so ever and its killing me,as i cant get enough of it.
i know sex isent everything in a relationship,but to me its a big part of it.
and before you say,you probably arnt pressing the right buttons,believe me,i used to and nothings changed on my part smile

anyway i was just wondering if it would be really bad of me to look for someone else to play with wink

i do love my partner,but need that little bit extra.
cheers bojangles x

2 Jul 2004

There's only your conscience to deal with.
Regarding every aspect of swinging, my personal rule is - if I don't feel 100% sure about doing something, then I don't do it.

2 Jul 2004

Hi hun let me just say sorry to hear about your predicament as I agree sex can be a very big part of a relationship. I do hope for the sake of your marrage your wife knows about your feelings and the fact you visit swinging sites hoping to meet a sex partner ? If she does then good luck however if she does not then ask yourself 2 questions. (1) Is it worth throwing your marrage down the drain and (2) how would you feel if you found out she was the one doing the looking on such sex sites ????

2 Jul 2004

i gotta agree with bifem try talking to your mrs tell her how bad your feeling inside
but then again i have seen marriges saved because the partner has a fuck buddy on the side .....
my advice if your gonna do it
never ever telll your wife
dont get attached to the buddy your fucking
wear condoms
so youve been warned
:twisted:

2 Jul 2004

you have to do what u feel is right
but if u have a fuck buddy without your wifes knowledge be discret boht for your self her and your buddy but also expect that at some piont the shit will hit the fan and you could lose it all
try to think with your head not your dick
good luck and do what u feel is right have fun
love lemons

2 Jul 2004

Quote by mr bojangles
and before you say,you probably arnt pressing the right buttons,believe me,i used to and nothings changed on my part

There's your answer.

2 Jul 2004

I agree with what others have said, if you are going to do it then make sure your wife never finds out and also make sure that your wife is your number one priority and that you can always let your fuck-buddy go if it starts to harm your relationship with your wife......
And ALWAYS use a Condom!!!