how close is to close

27 Sep 2005

I have to say that if anyone at work came upto me and touched me they would get a smack in the mouth
I think it depends on the situation, myself i find it very hard to believe a woman shagged 8 guys at work in a few weeks just cause 'she didn't mind being shagged'
But to me it depends on the person and where i am, to me work is work and i would not mix work with pleasure :lol:
and even if i didn't mind having my tits touched that rule don't aply to everyone some would still get a smack lol

27 Sep 2005

it usually changes between the hrs of 7pm & 2 am on fri/sat nights :shock:

27 Sep 2005

Quote by erospartnership
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend...........Over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.

It just goes to prove that you don't have to be a swinger to do the things that even a swinger would find it a bit distasteful. There is a time and place for wild sex as a swinger with graceful etiquette will tell you.
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.

27 Sep 2005

I absolutely hate people touching me or invading my space if I'm not comfortable with them.
It makes me cringe and I'm not very good in crowds because of this either.
However if I know them and are comfy with them then I'm probably in their space confused

'cos I get a bit touchy, cuddly, huggy type of thing. (Something for me to think about in the future)
It wouldn't happen at work and I couldn't shag someone just because I didn't mind.
I have sex with people other than Tim when I do mind and like them. :twisted:
Jas
XXX

27 Sep 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
and even if i didn't mind having my tits touched that rule don't aply to everyone some would still get a smack lol

Your tit's are probably the finest clad specimens that I have ever seen.
Can I touch them?

27 Sep 2005

Quote by Jas-Tim
I absolutely hate people touching me or invading my space if I'm not comfortable with them.
It makes me cringe and I'm not very good in crowds because of this either.
However if I know them and are comfy with them then I'm probably in their space 'cos I get a bit touchy, cuddly, huggy type of thing. (Something for me to think about in the future)
It wouldn't happen at work and I couldn't shag someone just because I didn't mind.
I have sex with people other than Tim when I do mind and like them. :twisted:
Jas
XXX

Your tits are probably the finest clad specimens that I have ever seen!
Can I touch them now lol

27 Sep 2005

Quote by lusty_modesty
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.

Interesting statement :shock:
I don't like to be touched by strangers too quickly but I find someone standing too close to me much more annoying, it doesn't make me uncomfortable as I will happily step away and tell them to keep their distance if they keep doing it....I just find it overbearing and a little rude!

27 Sep 2005

Quote by lusty_modesty
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend...........Over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.

It just goes to prove that you don't have to be a swinger to do the things that even a swinger would find it a bit distasteful. There is a time and place for wild sex as a swinger with graceful etiquette will tell you.
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.
Do you think you look normal, Your Honour?

27 Sep 2005

Funny this topic has popped up
Me and my hubby went to the g-spot for the first time ever on sat night and a guy came up to me and all he did was touch my hair and gave my a nice comment yet it made me feel so uneasy i was shocked :shock:
The reason i was shocked is because i have a thing for grope boxes and i love being touched when in there dunno

Even if a woman came up to me and started just touching me up i wouldnt like it and would pull away, i would have to fancy her and get to know her a little before i would feel comfortable with contact if i wasn't in a grope box lol

27 Sep 2005

Quote by erospartnership
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend and one of the women said that she didn't mind having her breasts touched by anyone. For her it was just the same as having her arm touched. Another person said that he didn't care if his ass was touched. After a while another woman said that she had been at work in the photocopy room and a guy came in and felt her up, she figured well I don't mind not because she liked him she just didn't care. As it progressed he fucked her and over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.

Sounds like she's depressed to me.

27 Sep 2005

Quote by marmalaid
and even if i didn't mind having my tits touched that rule don't aply to everyone some would still get a smack lol

Your tit's are probably the finest clad specimens that I have ever seen.
Can I touch them?
oh go on then if you must :roll: :roll:

27 Sep 2005

Quote by ChairmanMiaow
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend...........Over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.

It just goes to prove that you don't have to be a swinger to do the things that even a swinger would find it a bit distasteful. There is a time and place for wild sex as a swinger with graceful etiquette will tell you.
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.
Do you think you look normal, Your Honour?
Your Majesty, me absolutely clueless what you're trying to drive at? dunno

27 Sep 2005

Quote by lusty_modesty
We were having a chat with some friends over the weekend...........Over the next few weeks she fucked 8 guys in the room cause she just didn't mind being fucked. So the qestion on the table is where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.

It just goes to prove that you don't have to be a swinger to do the things that even a swinger would find it a bit distasteful. There is a time and place for wild sex as a swinger with graceful etiquette will tell you.
Frankly I'd prefer be a dignified swinger than that slut you mentioned...unless she has a genuine medical explanation behind her shocking behaviour.
Do you think you look normal, Your Honour?
Your Majesty, me absolutely clueless what you're trying to drive at? dunno

My interpretation is that he was politely asking if you really are a Judge, or do you just judge others against your own standards of normality?

27 Sep 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
I have to say that if anyone at work came upto me and touched me they would get a smack in the mouth

Just to let ya all know.... that does apply to husbands at homee as well lol

27 Sep 2005

Quote by sleazy
I have to say that if anyone at work came upto me and touched me they would get a smack in the mouth

Just to let ya all know.... that does apply to husbands at homee as well lol
Shit - wondered what I was doing wrong - nobody told me!! dunno

Quote by erospartnership
..... where is your comfort zone set. And has it changed over time.

Well it certainly ain't on top of the photocopier! And yes it has changed over time - it'll do multi-pages and sorting now! wink

Yeah! Yeah! I know I didn't answer the question! rolleyes

27 Sep 2005

Quote by Jas-Tim
I absolutely hate people touching me or invading my space if I'm not comfortable with them.
It makes me cringe and I'm not very good in crowds because of this either.

Me too.
There are a few people at work who stand/sit so close to me it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I've had to have words with one because I have told them that I don't like people invading my space yet he still carried on doing it. I try to avoid him now, though I don't think it's a personal thing against me - some people just aren't aware and are naturally touchy feely.
I can't stand being in a queue - usually the person behind is far too close to me and I feel really uncomfortable.
So I guess I have to be very comfortable with people to let them be close to me or touch me etc..... can be a bit of a hindrance at times but I'm trying to overcome it!
smile

27 Sep 2005

There are documented studies that show our personal space depends on where we are from... your childhood has an impact on how bigger personal space you natuarally have smile

So it is possible Onlyme that this person is just unaware of how they keep invading yours... however telling them should drop the hint, what can you do...
Still I doubt there are many women who would shag everyone in the office because they didn't mind. I know a few who may chose to shag most of the blokes as they fancied them and had no reason not to. Maybe that is more what the lady in your story was up to? Or was this more story than fact?

27 Sep 2005

If i dont invite you to touch then dont, as a smack in the gob often offends.
sierra x x evil

27 Sep 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
I absolutely hate people touching me or invading my space if I'm not comfortable with them.
It makes me cringe and I'm not very good in crowds because of this either.

Me too.
There are a few people at work who stand/sit so close to me it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I've had to have words with one because I have told them that I don't like people invading my space yet he still carried on doing it. I try to avoid him now, though I don't think it's a personal thing against me - some people just aren't aware and are naturally touchy feely.
smile

Thinks back to the Notts munch.... when I was wave

to you from the other end of the dance floor I was actually dancing with you - didn't you know?? Always was a touchy feely Choon me! wink

27 Sep 2005

My friends are always pointing out that my comfort zone is a bit further out there than theirs is.... They were talking about the conversations I am willing to have, and the fact that I generally don't regard many questions as off limits, whilst others would never dream of asking questions that are so blunt or direct.
They think I have no boundries in this regard... I do its just they have never reached them redface

I find my comfort zone has moved in general... but it also moves depending on person and situation.

28 Sep 2005

Quote by sleazy
I have to say that if anyone at work came upto me and touched me they would get a smack in the mouth

Just to let ya all know.... that does apply to husbands at homee as well lol
yeah but i smack you in the mouth just for sitting in the same house :lol: