How did you all get into swinging?

13 Sep 2006

Phew!!!! We had a problem with our membership payments - closed one of our accounts but forgot it was the one our direct debit comes out of!
I was having a panic cos we couldn't do anything as basic members!
Anyway, it was my idea to join up the site, we had always talked about having a threesome, and had had some 'fun' with some of my girlfriends, but i never felt too comfy taking things further with my mates, but we also didn't like the thought of just approaching someone on a night out in a club etc.
I suggested swinging after I read an article in a magazine on it, but den still thought it was a really seedy affair (well, it probably is lol) for failing marriages not thinking htere would be people our age etc and not really for us.
But a few days later he had a look on the internet and phoned me and told me to go check out a site....
Anyway, I logged on to the site to find my pictures on it!!! He'd surprised me by making a profile for us, and no, I wasn't mad at him, I couldn't stop grinning, it was soo exciting and such a turn on to see that within hours of putting it up, people had already emailed us wanting to meet up.
To be fair, the emails did tail off a bit, but it was still great fun! And I think Den is more than happy that I suggested it!!!!
Maz xxx

13 Sep 2006

good stories - keep 'em coming folks
pink x

13 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
My ex boyfriend insisted on a 3sum - 2 girls and him of course!!!
I was a little weary about it. But in typical 21 year old reticence I agreed to, because I thought it would help our relationship!!!!
So he asked a girl he worked with, who bizarrly enough agreed - we had a few drinks, and we ended up in bed!!! So far so good.
2 hours later, I'm having the time of my life, lots of , , etc, my boyfriend walks out because he kept trying to get involved, and I kept telling him to f**k off!!!
He didnt talk to me for 3 days, and we split up 2 weeks later, after he told all our friends that I was a !!!
Over the next few years I had a couple of relationships, male and female, and my last boyfriend introduced me to dogging. When we split, I googled dogging, and found SH. The rest as they say is history

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That's fucking classic ! You go girlfriend ! :thumbup:
PMSL i've heard stories like that so many times before, where the guy put pressure on 'his woman' to swing and they end up having a better time than him and/or end up leaving him for the person he talked her into swinging with in the first place my fave experiance was a cpl we met once where he was all for it but she was a little nervous but she ended up having a ball to the point he couldn't even get a hard on cause i think it took him back just how much she took to it and how she got all the attention he obviously wanted, anyway a cpl days later i was chatting to him on a chat room on a m8s name, whos house i was at, he didn't know it was me and was telling me how they had tryed as a couple but his mrs didn't really like it so now he meets alone :shock:

13 Sep 2006

Well sorry pink, our story is quite boring ...............
We have always enjoyed sex together very much. Although we do at times, (needs must and all that) we're not the kind of couple that will have a quick shag every day, but instead we have always prefered saving it until we could spend hours and hours together enjoying each other. About 18 months ago we were having a break in procedings, and she said what do you fantasise about?
I thought about it and suggested that maybe seeing her with another man would be a turn on... after she came down off the ceiling she said yer having a larf ain't yer...... or something like that...
a few weeks later, another break in a session chat, and she says "were you serious what you said the other week?" ....... I says yeah, so we talked some more....
cutting a long and boring story short we went out and fulfilled that fantasy, then we found SH, fulfilled the fantasy a few more times and we're still at it smile

Yes it is a huge turn on.......... for H cos she can enjoy another man, and for me because when I am not participating (I normally do) I can sit back and see her enjoying sex, which for me is a massive turn on. It's different when you see the reaction from a few feet away instead of doing it yourself. No matter what we have done with the "other guy" , we always end up having good sex before we finally go to sleep..
We're moving on now, H was unhappy with the thought of me and another woman, because it made her feel insecure about our relationship, she's past that now and has suggested that maybe it would be ok if we went slowly, so now we are moving towards swinging with couples as well as mmf..
so know you know
M

13 Sep 2006

Very slowly and I'm afraid it's too long and complex for me to go into it now. Suffice to say it involved a lot of very honest talking and some wonderful grace from my Angelica to get to where my profile says we are now.
.

14 Sep 2006

Quote by Stormwalker
STORMY!!!!
Oh there you are! How did we get into swinging again?????
FIRE xx

I think we have yet to swing my love..... rolleyes

That will teach you to live so far away from me! I think you should both take a holiday in rural Bedfordshire.
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14 Sep 2006

How did we get into swinging ?
We havent yet :cry:

14 Sep 2006

Well Timmy heard about dogging so we looked it up and found this site.
We tried dogging and it wasn't for us but we had discovered the chat room (back when I could keep up with it lol

) and got chatting to the marvellous SteveG who invited us to a party at his.
We met lots of lovely people there and had a good chat and then a play with a lovely couple.
We consider ourselves very lucky that our first social event was so well organised and the couple that we met were so fab and helpful to us first timers.
It progressed from there for us and we have had 3 splendid years being on this site and meeting people.
Jas
XXX

14 Sep 2006

Me and my other half started way back in 1983 - God, was it that long ago. Anyway we did have one bad experience from a couple we met via a certain East Midlands based contact magazine in as much as the husband burgled our house while we were at work, so that put us off for a while. :cry: Then we began meeting people separately, which lasted until about 1994 when my other half stopped. These days I meet women/couples only occasionally.

14 Sep 2006

Quote by Ben Nevis
Me and my other half started way back in 1983 - God, was it that long ago. Anyway we did have one bad experience from a couple we met via a certain East Midlands based contact magazine in as much as the husband burgled our house while we were at work, so that put us off for a while. :cry: Then we began meeting people separately, which lasted until about 1994 when my other half stopped. These days I meet women/couples only occasionally.

:shock: straight up? blink