Hi all. New here and I am trying to find a forum that can help me. I have a black male friend that I just found that likes getting head from me ( I am a male also).
The trouble is that he is really thick and slightly longer than 9 inches. It is very difficult for me to (first) get the head of his cock in my mouth. However, I can get past the flange and then take (maybe) an inch or two more. It is all I can do to breathe at this point.
Trouble is, I know he wants me to take more (if not all) of him and I just can't control the gagging. I seriously don't think that my throat can handle it.
I would like to learn how to do it but I don't know about muscle control and all that.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Miles
Dear Miles
My first reaction to reading this is 'who are you kidding, gov'na!'
My second reaction was that your friend needs to consult a surgeon. They can make them bigger so I'm sure they can make them smaller. He sounds abnormal.
In all cases... don't be so silly as to put your health and safety at risk. We all need to breathe and you simply can't do it if your windpipe is blocked. No bloke is worth ending up six feet under for.
Buy him a Python for Christmas... they do the dislocating jaw business with ease. Humans aren't designed for it.
Jxx
Either he's too big to be human, or you've got a very small mouth :-)
Miles, I've been feeling bad about not taking your plight seriously all day... so by recompense, here is some wisedom handed down to me by an old washer woman from Thurrock.
A lot of Gay men watch Swedish porn films and think they should have sex the same way. The thing is with porn stars is that they are completely barking and have no imagination. It isn't even necessary to suck to give good oral sex...
Here is Julie's tried and tested recipe:
Ingredients: Ask your friendly local Baker for some 'Confectioners sauce dressing'. (The kind of thing they drizzle over Danish Pastries). I prefer Lemon as the Maple is too sweet. What ever you do, don't get the one from the Sex Shop - it'll rot your teeth it has so much sugar! Next, you'll need a dual speed Body Massager.
Method: Liberally dribble your partners member with the sauce - paying special attention to the underside (and don't forget the testicles too!). Push the Body Massager firmly but gently up against the perinium (behind the testicles) and switch it to 'low'. Gently rotate the Massager against the testicles whilst at the same time licking the sauce off. Vary the method of your licking between playful little nibbles, long sloppy licks and shock him out of his complacentcy every now and again with one or two powerful flicks with the end of your tongue against the 'V' shaped part of the tip of his penis. Pause between long slurps to look up into his eyes and give him that little 'Come and get me, big boy' twinkle.
Continue this for seven minutes, or when ever he looks fit to take off into orbit. You are now ready for the finale: while vigourously flicking the tip of his penis, switch the massager to 'hi'.... and stand well back!
300 blokes have just shot their bolt reading this post. (And ladies, you can get them to do it to you too!) I'm sure your friend would appreciate the gesture, Miles. End of gagging problem!
Not that I'm a professional in these matters - just an enthusiastic amateur who has dedicated years of selfless study to the subject.
Best of luck with it.