How do I find a geninue Sub Lady for Spanking

9 Jun 2013

Been on this site for several years and have tried to find a geninue sub lady for NSA fun for spanking and roleplay fun.
Just seem to have no luck at all anyone any ideas or suggestions?
Paul

9 Jun 2013

Having been on this site for quite a few years I seem to have found the perfect solution which is "GUARANTED" to work. I am sure that anyone who adds to the thread below will vouch for my expert advice.......
Write it on a banner and stand outside Tesco!
The only thing is sometimes I get things the wrong way round so I am not sure who will be doing the spanking.
Worth a go though hey! lol

10 Jun 2013

Welcome to the forums.
I would suggest you wrtie a little more about yourself in your profile text and include a location, as it is some what vague as to where you are, that way folk who may be looking have an idea as to what you like / seeking/ etc.
Good luck.

14 Jun 2013

Quote by hrnypns2007
Been on this site for several years and have tried to find a geninue sub lady for NSA fun for spanking and roleplay fun.
Just seem to have no luck at all anyone any ideas or suggestions?
Paul

Go on that site that's designed for fet. I don't come here for bdsm, I come here for swing.

16 Jun 2013

Check out your local small ads publication under the heading "Sub Lady wants spanker", although you've probably already found what you're looking for ... you know, outside Tesco's.

7 Jul 2013

Most of the suggestions have been said... sandwich board outside Tesco (maybe switch it up with Asda), websites which cater to the BDSM crowd, etc.
If you've been here for so long and this is only your first post, what have you been doing to find someone?
There needs to be a bit of effort involved.
nic
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8 Jul 2013

Quote by hrnypns2007
Been on this site for several years and have tried to find a geninue sub lady for NSA fun for spanking and roleplay fun.
Just seem to have no luck at all anyone any ideas or suggestions?

I don't know a thing about S&M etc, really not my thing, but there is one little word in the bit quoted above that may be the problem. You said "NSA" ... No Strings Attached.
Maybe that is the problem? From what i understand, there has to be an above usual amount of trust for those involved, especially the "spankee" ... Meeting someone off the internet is all well and good but maybe, just maybe, anyone who is looking for a "spanker" , especially a single female, would be looking for someone she can learn to trust and maybe develop that side of things.
I don't know if I explained that well enough. Maybe I should have just said: ..if you were a single lass, would you turn up to meet someone from the 'net who you had never met for a one off beating around the arse area...without knowing if they are genuinely decent guy.. and would stop when you asked them to...????
If however you go for the supermarket option,Waitrose, far classier biggrin

21 Jul 2013

Quote by postie
Been on this site for several years and have tried to find a geninue sub lady for NSA fun for spanking and roleplay fun.
Just seem to have no luck at all anyone any ideas or suggestions?

I don't know a thing about S&M etc, really not my thing, but there is one little word in the bit quoted above that may be the problem. You said "NSA" ... No Strings Attached.
Maybe that is the problem? From what i understand, there has to be an above usual amount of trust for those involved, especially the "spankee" ... Meeting someone off the internet is all well and good but maybe, just maybe, anyone who is looking for a "spanker" , especially a single female, would be looking for someone she can learn to trust and maybe develop that side of things.
I don't know if I explained that well enough. Maybe I should have just said: ..if you were a single lass, would you turn up to meet someone from the 'net who you had never met for a one off beating around the arse area...without knowing if they are genuinely decent guy.. and would stop when you asked them to...????
If however you go for the supermarket option,Waitrose, far classier biggrin

Good explanation Postie and good to see you posting.