how do I get the best chance of meets

11 Mar 2009

Hi all I know this is the age old question. But how do I get the best chance of a meet through my profile and ads? im a single male and it seems I must be writing something wrong cause I never get replys no matter what i do any ideas. thanks

11 Mar 2009

Quote by Letshavefun1986
Hi all I know this is the age old question. But how do I get the best chance of a meet through my profile and ads? im a single male and it seems I must be writing something wrong cause I never get replys no matter what i do any ideas. thanks

We cannot really see anything wrong there at all.
What you have to bear in mind on a swinging site is this.....there are zillions of single guys out there, and a lot of timewasters too.
We are a couple and we can struggle to find decent meets, so it is going to be much harder for single guys.
Try and attend a social and go into the chat rooms near as poss to where you live..Then when people know and recognise you, then your success rate may get better.
But good luck and keep persevering. wink

11 Mar 2009

Thanks kent I have tried the chatrooms but no one talks back i guess the next would have to be a social.

11 Mar 2009

Your profile message, and adverts are great, not to long not to short!
Your ammount of photos are great as well, and shows all that is needed! wink

I would encourage you to carry on in the chat rooms, you have to join in the chat, so just chip in all the time, and get involved in the banter.
Our best guy from this site was found(?) via the chat rooms, so they do work!
There are plenty of ladies and gents who will respond to you, given time you will be chatting away, and become known, so go for it, dont give up!
All the best to you.

11 Mar 2009

Hey buddy
:welcome: to the forums!
I cant see anything wrong with ya profile either...
But a quick sniff in the air just might reveal a tinge of desperation & I will advise ya to back off the revs a bit ok biggrin

It's always gonna be scratch n sniff hit n miss with the ads...
Don't expect replies coz a no often offends & you wont be everyone's catechin polyphenol rich cuppa green herbal tea!
Now you've told us you have tried the chat rooms so now it's the socials :shock:
confused

Yup... sounds like your on a mission son!
Where's ya 'funshine' :?:
At the mo I'm not in a position to swing with every Tom Dick & Harrietta but I do like to join in the forums & chat rooms just for some 'funshine'
Keep that in mind next time your on the forums or the chat rooms & I can tell ya the first social you attend this friendly bunch will either wanna knock ya block off as in my case when some fooka mistook me for fabio dunno

...or drag ya away in mercilessly do nawty things to you...
I'm still under therapy for that... redface

This says it all really...

Quote by Lucyandmike7
There are plenty of ladies and gents who will respond to you, given time you will be chatting away, and become known, so go for it, dont give up!

Keep ya eyes n ears open, chip in, have fun... have fun... have plain simple happy joy joy fun!!!

11 Mar 2009

only thing i find wrong with your profile and its purly from own choice is that you are already in a relationship
for myself i wont play because of that i dont want to be party to your cheating on another female its as simple as that really all other parts is fine

11 Mar 2009

Quote by redpantherman
Keep that in mind next time your on the forums or the chat rooms & I can tell ya the first social you attend this friendly bunch will either wanna knock ya block off as in my case when some fooka mistook me for fabio ...or drag ya away in mercilessly do nawty things to you...
I'm still under therapy for that...

shouldn`t run around in disguise then!!! biggrin

11 Mar 2009

Just checked a guys profile out, after a quick dip in the chatrooms.
It stated that living in Yorshire might hinder his prospects of a meet!!!!
lol

:lol: :lol:

11 Mar 2009

butcher or deli counter
lp

11 Mar 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
Just checked a guys profile out, after a quick dip in the chatrooms.
It stated that living in Yorshire might hinder his prospects of a meet!!!!
:lol: :lol:

And your point is what exactly? bolt

11 Mar 2009

Quote by redpantherman
Just checked a guys profile out, after a quick dip in the chatrooms.
It stated that living in Yorshire might hinder his prospects of a meet!!!!
:lol: :lol:

And your point is what exactly? bolt

Red, my love, we are from Yorshire (not by birth though!)
Its never hindered us......yet! wink

I think he may of been saying it tongue in cheek!
I hope!

11 Mar 2009

And with a very firm tongue in cheek was my cheeky lil query
biggrin