my partner and i (from cardiff) have had several experiences of swinging however the last one didnt go according to plan and shge ended up with a broken nose........long story ..
She wants to try again and wants the confidence to go but she cant bring herself to do it...do i
a)let her take her time
b)find someone we know and trust
c)leave well alone?
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How do i go around this
Sexlightened
Personally I would let her take her time.
Another option would be go to go to a club. I guess where there will be less pressure to perform but the opportunity to if she wants. She would hopefully feel alot safer there as well. Hope this helps.
Another option would be go to go to a club. I guess where there will be less pressure to perform but the opportunity to if she wants. She would hopefully feel alot safer there as well. Hope this helps.
i have suggested clubs someone we know and trust but she talks and wants to but when it comes down to it she doesnt want to..........and as much as i try to re assure her if she doesnt want to it dont make any difference she feels like she lets herself down as she is one of the horniest people i know but thx for the reply
as long as we are happy i dont care if she dont want to do any thing but she enjoys herself way to much and it is something we have become accustomed to
as long as we are happy i dont care if she dont want to do any thing but she enjoys herself way to much and it is something we have become accustomed to
Sex God
Quote by welshanimal
my partner and i (from cardiff) have had several experiences of swinging however the last one didnt go according to plan and shge ended up with a broken nose........long story ..
c)leave well alone?
:shock: How on earth did she end up with a broken nose? Was it a little rough horse play or an assault? If so, who did it to her?
Personally, I'd go for option *c*, for the time being at least
Tracy-Jayne
shall we say we met some cpl we were talking to off another site.......... sorry.....and we were having a good night few drinks lots of games and then things went along their natural causes.........women first men were men sat back as told to do so and then me and him got a bit happy.....we started to have a go with each other ( sorry this is the shortened version) the other girl got very horny and really got into my g/f who was loving it.............i had my cock in him ...they both turned on by this.....my g/f put her pussy against his cock while mumching ...his g/f got upset and lost all control and they started to fight........night over
Sexpert
I agree with DD and make sure when it does happen again that everyone knows what everyone is happy doing or not doing to each other.
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Sex God
Quote by welshanimal
.....my g/f put her pussy against his cock while mumching ...his g/f got upset and lost all control and they started to fight........night over
Perhaps you should discuss boundary issues with the other couple beforehand, if you decide to try again. Personally I can understand her losing confidence after such an episode :therethere:
Give her time and talk lots. If she wants to try again, I'm sure she'll let you know when
T-J
Quote by RedHot
.....my g/f put her pussy against his cock while mumching ...his g/f got upset and lost all control and they started to fight........night over
Perhaps you should discuss boundary issues with the other couple beforehand, if you decide to try again. Personally I can understand her losing confidence after such an episode :therethere:
Give her time and talk lots. If she wants to try again, I'm sure she'll let you know when
T-J
that was all discussed and what was agreed was followed but the other g/f lost control........green envy i think would be an appropriate way to put it took over
Quote by welshanimal
.....my g/f put her pussy against his cock while mumching ...his g/f got upset and lost all control and they started to fight........night over
Perhaps you should discuss boundary issues with the other couple beforehand, if you decide to try again. Personally I can understand her losing confidence after such an episode :therethere:
Give her time and talk lots. If she wants to try again, I'm sure she'll let you know when
T-J
that was all discussed and what was agreed was followed but the other g/f lost control........green envy i think would be an appropriate way to put it took over
Was this the first time for yourself and the other couple.......we decided to stay well clear of first timers for this very reason.....i know you have to start somewhere but not with us.
Quote by da69ve
.....my g/f put her pussy against his cock while mumching ...his g/f got upset and lost all control and they started to fight........night over
Perhaps you should discuss boundary issues with the other couple beforehand, if you decide to try again. Personally I can understand her losing confidence after such an episode :therethere:
Give her time and talk lots. If she wants to try again, I'm sure she'll let you know when
T-J
that was all discussed and what was agreed was followed but the other g/f lost control........green envy i think would be an appropriate way to put it took over
Was this the first time for yourself and the other couple.......we decided to stay well clear of first timers for this very reason.....i know you have to start somewhere but not with us.
no this wasnt our first time and from what we were led to believe it wasnt theirs
Quote by welshanimal
.....my g/f put her pussy against his cock while mumching ...his g/f got upset and lost all control and they started to fight........night over
Perhaps you should discuss boundary issues with the other couple beforehand, if you decide to try again. Personally I can understand her losing confidence after such an episode :therethere:
Give her time and talk lots. If she wants to try again, I'm sure she'll let you know when
T-J
that was all discussed and what was agreed was followed but the other g/f lost control........green envy i think would be an appropriate way to put it took over
Was this the first time for yourself and the other couple.......we decided to stay well clear of first timers for this very reason.....i know you have to start somewhere but not with us.
no this wasnt our first time and from what we were led to believe it wasnt theirs
Drinking too much doesn't help either......just watch for the signs there as well.
