How do you cope with an arguement?

29 Jul 2004

How do people cope with an arguement with a loved one that has upset one or both parties involved?

29 Jul 2004

Depends on the type of argument, I suppose. If it's simply a genuine disagreement that's become too heated, or worse still an argument stemming from a misunderstanding of something someone said, I'm a great believer in hugs as a universal cure.

29 Jul 2004

Depends on the cirumstances, if hes wrong i tell him, if im right i tell him!! no joke!!
Try and talk about it without putting all the blame on the other party. If its a real bad one go for a walk or something before talking
If its a very , very bad one , say "Fancy a shag?"!!!

29 Jul 2004

fancy a shag? biggrin

Does that really work?

29 Jul 2004

If its a very , very bad one , say "Fancy a shag?"!!!

Would with me, but if I tried it I would end up with 3 adams apples :shock:

29 Jul 2004

LOL@tall'n'hairy :lol:
would three adam's apples make your voice higher or lower? hmmm?
Well, I'd try the hug advice cos that works out and I love having cuddles, but we live in different countries.....
Which also rules out the shagging.... for now anyway.
Back to the drawing board.... I'm not so good with words in a row.

29 Jul 2004

Tell him that underneath everything, you love him and that ain't about to change even if you wanted it to. cool

29 Jul 2004

29 Jul 2004

Thanks for the advice!
I apologised and we've talked.
I don't think I could be mad at him for long anyway... I love him too much.
He'd appriciate the toilet roll cos in Denmark it's really expensive for bad quality scratch your bum off paper! I take a load of charmin comfort with with me everytime I visit!

29 Jul 2004

I always try to catch the teapot , although the Health n Safety line from Relate is to take avoiding action .
Anyway , pleased you have made up .

29 Jul 2004

Arguments are about stubborness. think back to your last argument before this one and I bet you wil see how trivial it the time it is the most burning issue in the world and you have got to win it. But as i said look back on past ones I bet you cannot even remember who won and even if you can does it really matter. Loving relationships are not about scoring points but arguments are about scarring points. Those who can compromise are the winners
take care and don't worry we all argue it is in our nature
Rot

29 Jul 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
If its a real bad one go for a walk or something before talking

Tried that, when I came back she had gone and never seen again. Ah well......
Dave_Notts

29 Jul 2004

I understand the 'walking off to calm down' thing but at the same time, it really pees me off when they do that.
I hate arguing :cry:

30 Jul 2004

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Yep, that would work! :lol2:

30 Jul 2004

hugs are definatly the universal cure for everything redface