How do you get replies

1 Apr 2005

This may be me being naive. But I have replied to dozens of ads and the only replies I get are from women who refer me to pay as you go websites. I thought the idea was to communicate by email and then possibly meet up.
Someone tell me where I am going wrong.
Wanderinstar.

1 Apr 2005

They are just cons!! Just keep trying and something will happen eeventually!!
We get a lot of spam like that just block it or add it to bulk or spam (or sommit like that!)

1 Apr 2005

Lets have a look at your ad!

2 Apr 2005

My ad. no is240652. Any pointers would be greatly appreciated.
Wanderinstar

2 Apr 2005

Quote by wanderinstar
My ad. no is240652. Any pointers would be greatly appreciated.
Wanderinstar

I would not start off with the expression "looking for nookie" - you go on to describe very clearly what you are looking for so the expression is unnecessary, and a bit cheesy anyway IMHO.
You do not say very much about yourself as a person, e.g. whether you are single, married, divorced.
Good luck anyway,
Mike.

2 Apr 2005

Cheers Mike,
Have altered it a bit, will have a think and rehash it. Does being 52 lessen my likelihood of replies.
Wamderinstar

2 Apr 2005

You could go to a reputable pet store or find a registered breeder....
.Oh fcuk... Sorry ...thought you said reptiles
:doh:

2 Apr 2005

Ermmmmmmmmm...if you're very sincere and know how to make love to a lady, does that mean your wife knows you're on here? Or does discreet mean she doesn't? Maybe your ad could also clarify that for the people who'd consider playing with you. Just a thought.

2 Apr 2005

Mmmm something else to think about. Your right she doesnt know.

2 Apr 2005

Quote by wanderinstar
Mmmm something else to think about. Your right she doesnt know.

Errmm.... "swinging" without a partners knowledge or consent tends to be classified by a lot of people as "cheating". rolleyes

3 Apr 2005

I am not getting enough sex at home. If she knew I was on here it would probably mean divorce,Hence discretion.
Whats my alternative, celibacy, divorce or discretion? I,m not looking for an affair, just a bit of adult fun.
I would be happy as a pig in the brown stuff if she was consenting and even taking part, but she isn,t and wont.

3 Apr 2005

Quote by wanderinstar
I am not getting enough sex at home. If she knew I was on here it would probably mean divorce,Hence discretion.
Whats my alternative, celibacy, divorce or discretion? I,m not looking for an affair, just a bit of adult fun.
I would be happy as a pig in the brown stuff if she was consenting and even taking part, but she isn,t and wont.

You've asked her, then?

3 Apr 2005

Quote by wanderinstar
How do you get replies?

Well whjat helps is having what other people want,therefore they will reply biggrin

(Im feeling proper helpful today :angel: )

3 Apr 2005

Quote by Clare_Lincs
How do you get replies?

Well whjat helps is having what other people want,therefore they will reply biggrin

(Im feeling proper helpful today :angel: )
smackbottom

Clare! Noooo, don't feel helpful! People might start thinking that folk in here are nice and then they'd expect replies n things. Where would we all be then? dunno

Well...... the mods would be out of a job and the trolls would be back in their caves and Neil.... well he might actually think that people cared about him instead of just wanting to post his whipped ass all over sh! :shock:
And..... well....... Venus might stop interogating us about our psycologial structures and then the world would impode and the site would crash n stuff.
redface

Ok, Gemma really shouldn't drink alcohol. It's really not a good thing either. bolt

8 Apr 2005

Luv2lic,
You could go to Specsavers or find a registered opticians.
Oh dear!! ........Thought you were blind.