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1) Dont PM people at random with annoying messages!!
2) Get to know people from joining in on the board as soon as you feel confortable answering a post or see something that interests you!!
3)Post where you are meant to post and dont post where youre not meant to post!!
4)Welcome and Enjoy!!
2) Get to know people from joining in on the board as soon as you feel confortable answering a post or see something that interests you!!
3)Post where you are meant to post and dont post where youre not meant to post!!
4)Welcome and Enjoy!!
Sex God
When you've joined in the forums and got yourself known and built a rapport with a few people, you'll find most people are delighted to receive PMs, just don't go ASLing complete strangers, cos that will piss them off.
Enjoy
Enjoy
Sex God
Quote by Essex_lad1981
Only problem is because of my age would anyone take me seriously??
(probaly didn't choose the most appealing name though!! oops)
See the thread about Age differences.
Sex God
Just be yourself, get to know people on the forum, and the rest is just human nature.... people will like and support you once they know you as a person. PMs are annoying when they're from a newbie who just wants "vital statistics", PMs from friends are nice 
Dont see why not if you look at this http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/23247.html youll see people have different prefernences!
As for the nickname well you can explain that here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20856.html ;)
As for the nickname well you can explain that here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20856.html ;)
Hiya Essex_lad 
Just join in with the forums, give your opinion, get to know us and let us get to know you. ...... once you start to establish links with certain people, then you can take chats to PM .... at least then you will have something relevant to say to that person in PM, rather than the 'ASL' which some people seem to think is a good conversation starter 
If it's not your thing here - some people don't want to build the friendship side, and do only come on here to find sex. Then maybe take a look at the photo ads, thats more of a direct contact thing.
Tis up to you, work out what you want out of the site, then go for it
Have fun :D
Just join in with the forums, give your opinion, get to know us and let us get to know you.
...... once you start to establish links with certain people, then you can take chats to PM .... at least then you will have something relevant to say to that person in PM, rather than the 'ASL' which some people seem to think is a good conversation starter If it's not your thing here - some people don't want to build the friendship side, and do only come on here to find sex. Then maybe take a look at the photo ads, thats more of a direct contact thing.
Tis up to you, work out what you want out of the site, then go for it
Have fun :D
Sex God
Age is not important. The sort of person you are is important. Take your time to get to know people and to let people get to know you and then something might happen.
well I'm not just on here for sex, i seem to have a very high sex drive and can't seem to find anyone with similar ideas of my own age (please hold the puberty jokes!! lol) and after a few incounters with older women i seem to feel more at home.
Just don't want to be seem as a regular Essex spotty oik!
Just don't want to be seem as a regular Essex spotty oik!
hehe thats ok Im sure youre an irregullar spotted essex oik :P
maybe its a different kind of file extention with it being a stone age pc 
.brick
.brick
ahh maybe the actual picture size is too big 120 by 120 pixels, should be able to change the size in fuck whats the programme is it photoshop i think you can use??
Sex God
Quote by Essex_lad1981
Well the files a jpeg and it but it keeps knocking it back saying it's too large
Any ideas :?:
There's a limit on vertical and horizontal size as well as total size. I think it's 100x100 pixels.
Its 102 by 102 I wrote it backwards!! I think my eyes are tired
Hello all, Ive looked across the site and talked to a few people through adverts i have posted on SH, but beyond reading the forums and the comments submitted by others i haven't posted before. I just wanted to say its nice to meet people with similar outlooks and views on life, besides which, the comments posted have often had me laughing my ass off in amusement or agreeing with the more serious views submitted by others regarding numerous topics. I'm looking forward to getting to know you all better so feel free to drop me a line and although i can't be hear all the time, i will reply when i can.
Quote by Essex_lad1981
well I'm not just on here for sex, i seem to have a very high sex drive and can't seem to find anyone with similar ideas of my own age (please hold the puberty jokes!! lol) and after a few incounters with older women i seem to feel more at home.
Just don't want to be seem as a regular Essex spotty oik!
Hey peeps!!.........do you think that little old Debbiewebs might be in here!... :wink: :wink:
WELL HELLOOOOOOO Essex-.... do you like older women that are nutters!. :bounce: ......shoot...... O hello dear! {Mr Debs Just walked in }
:lol:Welcome abourd to the nut house!.....err nice smile by the way! :wink: :wink: :wink:..........
Well folks, hello, my names martay and this will be my first post. I did sign up a couple of weeks ago, but lost my login info so signed up again, but from then until now I just been repplying to a couple of adverts, I put my own up and I been chatting to a couple of people from their ads.
Anyway, I was slightly nervous about posting, for one being new, for two being quite young(younger than mr essexlad so he doesnt have to worry anymore;-) ) but then I just thought f**k it, no point in hiding.
There really is quite a lot I could write about myself, so I will keep it simple, I am from Notts, and am coming into this scene on my own.
BTW, I hope you like my pic, I had it done for an ID card for a new job a few weeks ago, and I must admit, I look really stoned or something!!!
Anyway, I was slightly nervous about posting, for one being new, for two being quite young(younger than mr essexlad so he doesnt have to worry anymore;-) ) but then I just thought f**k it, no point in hiding.
There really is quite a lot I could write about myself, so I will keep it simple, I am from Notts, and am coming into this scene on my own.
BTW, I hope you like my pic, I had it done for an ID card for a new job a few weeks ago, and I must admit, I look really stoned or something!!!
Big welcome to the forms to you, have fun MISSCHIEF OOH I WAS HERE FIRST!.......bugger off ......and find your self another!
HUH some people!
Debbiewebs stomps off in one of her moods!.......stomp stomp!.mutter mutter
hello the other!.Marty!....wecome to the mad house! :wink: :welcome:
HUH some people!
Debbiewebs stomps off in one of her moods!.......stomp stomp!.mutter mutter
hello the other!.Marty!....wecome to the mad house!
:wink: :welcome: To all you newbies :wave: How do you get to know peeps???
Well talking a load of bollox certainly seems to help,and having a larf doesnt go a miss too :mrgreen:
