How do you kiss, perhaps someone for the first time? Forget about the tongue becoming involved for the moment.
As a male my thought once you get to the point of a more serious kiss once your lips meet is a gentle rolling movement. Having kissed a few 50 plus ladies lately I find that most of them seem to have more of a chewing movement. I do similar then to keep up with them. Its very nice but not something I'd have risked doing for the first kiss in case they thought I was being too 'friendly'.
So, boys and girls, particularly girls, how do you like to be kissed?
I should add that this was not in a swinging atmosphere but a meeting of two people where a relationship might follow.
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Usually on first I embrace a woman in greeting and her on the upper neck. aftyer that then if the face is offered up then kis on the mouth gently but firmly finding out how that is thats as far as it gets which is however the kiss on the mouth is responded too with passion I place my hand on gently on the back of the neck,grabbing hair gentlt but forcfully if she has enough to grab hold of. pulling her into a harder kiss.
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Usually on first I embrace a woman in greeting and her on the upper neck. aftyer that then if the face is offered up then kis on the mouth gently but firmly finding out how that is thats as far as it gets which is however the kiss on the mouth is responded too with passion I place my hand on gently on the back of the neck,grabbing hair gentlt but forcfully if she has enough to grab hold of. pulling her into a harder kiss.
Long, dark, curly hair reporting for duty sir
Inclined to agree about the no tongues etiquette for a first kiss but can't imagine a snog without some tongue flicking and exploration beyond that. The best kisses have been those where the pace has been quite leisurely and there has also been some other bodily contact to 'draw' me into the kiss. Sloppy kisses are a big no no..
Most embarassing moment was when I leaned in for a kiss on the lips and got a peck on the cheek...definately read the signals wrong there!
Most embarassing moment was when I leaned in for a kiss on the lips and got a peck on the cheek...definately read the signals wrong there!
Sex God
Depends on how much I want the person and what the situation is.
I remember my first kiss with someone who I had wanted since I first laid eyes on them. It was passionate, hard, breathy, lots of pressing bodies against each other, running hands over one another to get hold of clothing & remove it, nibbling of lips, low growls. Hot. We continued having nights like that now and then that turned from gentle soft love making into hot and horny frantic growly sex occasionally and vice versa.
Other times it is slower and more sensual, lots of tippy tongues, gentle circles, lip sucks, gentle nibbles, hands running through hair & down the nape of the neck to the shoulders, caresses and teases. Neck nibbles and kisses are a winner.
Both are fab... well I think so.
I remember my first kiss with someone who I had wanted since I first laid eyes on them. It was passionate, hard, breathy, lots of pressing bodies against each other, running hands over one another to get hold of clothing & remove it, nibbling of lips, low growls. Hot. We continued having nights like that now and then that turned from gentle soft love making into hot and horny frantic growly sex occasionally and vice versa.
Other times it is slower and more sensual, lots of tippy tongues, gentle circles, lip sucks, gentle nibbles, hands running through hair & down the nape of the neck to the shoulders, caresses and teases. Neck nibbles and kisses are a winner.
Both are fab... well I think so.
Sex God
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How do you kiss, perhaps someone for the first time?
Normally I wait until my victim is totally plastered. I get plastered myself as a justification for my actions. There are a few pit falls to watch out for the worst two being policemen and vomit. Miss those and youve done ok
Warming the Bed
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Sloppy kisses are a big no no..
I like wet kisses the best!
Frankly, when desire is there it is all good - apart from a single thing, people shoving their tongue as deep as they'll go, straight off to begin with. OK I know people are keen to demonstrate their passion, but there is no reason to be so heavy-handed about it!For me if first kisses feel awkward it is a sign of either not enough attraction or not feeling comfortable enough with each other
In the latter cases I prefer to delay kissing, ie. do it as part of the main (oral? heh) sex rather than as part of foreplay.Smooth2, I think you need to worry less about the technique and concentrate more on the sensations and projected feeling - esp. since you bothered specifying this was in a "dating" type setting :thumbup:
If I can't kiss I don't want to be in your revolution!
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Of course, there's always the tried and tested method of gauging the potential for a snog:
Q. Would you mind if I kissed you?
A. Yes!
Q. I suppose a blowjob's out of the question then?
:giggle:
Hi Cubes, you win today's star prize for tact and diplomacy!!!!!!!
For the first time I do always ask "May I kiss you?"
Smooth1
Sex God
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How do you kiss
Well* :smug:
*Or so I'm told.
