Ladies, can I have some advice please. My girlfriend shaves her pussy with her ladyshave, but its still a bit stubbly, which makes it sore for both of us when we have sex. I have tried shaving it with a “Bic” type of razor, which definitely is a bit smoother, but even though I go very careful, she is always worried I may nick her and I still end up with a bit of stubble on her inner lips, which still makes us sore. She doesn’t fancy waxing. Can any of you give me advice on making a smoother shave. Thanks
I know I'm not a lady but I can speak with some authority on this subject as Cubette has tried a number of different options. ;)
Many, many previous threads have proven that the use of a hair removal cream on the nether regions is a risky business and can result in chemical burns. :scared:
Waxing is better, and longer lasting, but the thought of it can put some people off.
The ultimate solution is to have the area laser treated. Although that's pretty much a permanent solution, the cost is prohibitive, and the transient pain during treatment is not for the faint hearted (allegedly).
As you've already discovered, the best compromise is to shave. The ladyshave-type appliances don't seem to be as good at their job as shavers designed for men, so if you have one of those give it a try.
The best tip I can give is to apply a light dusting of talc to the area before using any type of electric shaver. They work far better on dry skin. :thumbup:
Items needed
1) A cheap aerosol deodorant
2) A bic cigarette lighter
3) A big sense of humour (Or a divorce lawyer)
Can I ask what puts her off waxing?
I didn't fancy it much either, but I bit the bullet so to speak many years ago & I wouldn't use any other method now.
It's quick, very effective & after the first couple of times relatively pain free.
It is not reccommended on the packet so try this at your own risk but I very carefully use Veet cream for sensitive skin. If you are very careful with covering up the clit and labia with a piece of toilet tissue (if a little turned on it will stick there happily) you can apply the cream without it coming into contact for those delicate parts. Warning though! Time it accurately. I did fall asleep once and ended up in a right mess for a few weeks. Always use either Aloe Vera Afterwax or lashings of aqueous cream afterwards to protect the skin. It usually lasts for a few days and the hair grows back soft and not stubbly.
If you don't fancy this. Waxing can be very good, but not for the faint hearthearted and I wouldn't do it if...er...shall we say "hormonal". ouch!
Hope that helps.
I can't shave, or wax, or use 'normal' female hair removal products, as a diabetic some of my symptoms have been horrific after usage. I was recommended Carsons Magic Hair Removal Powder, readily available on ebay, and have never looked back. It is easy to use, and provided you follow the instructions, it removes every last hair. I put it on with the back of a spoon, and take it off with the front of the spoon. It was designed for black/afro carribean men to use to remove their beards, as they are prone to shaving 'bumps'; and therefore if it's safe enough for a face, it's safe enough for my 'bits'. I rarely have ingrowing hairs, and no rash whatsoever.
There are several varieties available, even one for extra strong hair, and believe me, I have very strong, fast growing hair! I have stubble the next morning, but Mr T uses it and only has to use it every other week.
Here's a link, hope it works:
Shave? No, a big bush is so sexy, such a turn on, and much more woman-like!
Use Veet but start with the one for sensitive skin and follow the instructions, don't use any deodorant/perfume for 24hrs after. If all the hair doesn't go completely i repeat the process the next day. I feel better avoiding sex for about 24-48 hrs or more but u might want to sprinkle some baby powder on it, use a nappy rash cream like sudocrem or even dab with TCP and cotton wool after.
Normally, MrG does the honours, but I have used Veet Sensitive for the first time today, with smooth success
Ha ha, wasn't on the wine.....well not till later. Bloody auto correct!