How do you raise the subject

28 Jan 2005

Hi,
I have been intrested in swinging for a little while, and have kept close tabs on this site and forum and looking to ask my girlfriend about it, any tips on how to approach the idea of swinging to her, ideally couple to couple fun, any ideas gratefully recieved.
DN

28 Jan 2005

I think perhaps waiting until you are in a place where you`d knowhow to approach her with it would be a good idea. A strong communication level is vital when getting into this game. Work on that, see where it leads, and good luck to you both! smile

Venusxxx

28 Jan 2005

And don't just turn up home with some young blonde and say, "fancy a bit of fun"

28 Jan 2005

Quote by MattyGB
And don't just turn up home with some young blonde and say, "fancy a bit of fun"

I dunno....works for me right now! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

28 Jan 2005

yeah had thought that probably was not the best way to go about it wink

28 Jan 2005

venus, you so need to get your toy fixed

28 Jan 2005

so venusmars, how did you two get in to it?

28 Jan 2005

For us it was just a natural progression, sharing fantasies, becoming confident enough with each other to suggest making it a reality..
and yep, we tried the wrong approach earlier in our marraige, before we had the strong communication we have now. Burnt our fingers tremendously. Something we learnt from though smile

Venusxxx

28 Jan 2005

You could bring it up casually in conversation, her reaction will tell you if she is repulsed by the idea or interested.
TIP If she says OMG I WOULDN'T DARE DO THAT! It usually means you're out of luck! lol