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Just curious.
How many of your non swinging friends know you swing?
How about your parents?
Who have you told and got good reactions from?
How many have you told that no longer talk to you?
I have told my friend and my sister inlaw
my friend ended up swinging and dogging with us smile
but if my sister inlaw does i dont want to know the details redface
No one knows thats part of the thrill!! biggrin
my mum knows we go dogging and that im bi sexual but i havent told her, she saw a print out of dogging locations from this site and now just makes jokes about it.
my mum is a very outgoing person and as always said that nothing about me would surprice her dunno
duno what she means by that :twisted:
You would need to think before announcing things to people as they may not necessarily take it how you want. Relative strangers will categorise you immediately, old friends could be upset as they realise they did not quite know you. Things like that.
redface surprisedops: i'm "sure" my parents know,i had arranged a meet from a different site with a couple quite a bit older than myself,anyway the said couple came over to my place for a kind of social meet(the kind where you think nowt will happen) and things get a little moved on i.e she's got her top off(now wearing just bra) touching and feeling is taking place and the lights are off,then the lights and i mean proper full on BIG light are on!!! and me mum is standing there with some laundry!!! it has never been mentioned since but sometimes there is an awkward silence between me and me mum lol
i could have crawled up me own backside that evening
:oops: :oops:
no one knows, my little pastime
I've been in the midst of conversations about it at work where people have gone its disgusting,its sick,its wrong.
No I didn't 'come out',I just felt my heart sink.
I would say many of us have friends and relatives who wouldn't understand AT ALL.
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redface surprisedops: i'm "sure" my parents know,i had arranged a meet from a different site with a couple quite a bit older than myself,anyway the said couple came over to my place for a kind of social meet(the kind where you think nowt will happen) and things get a little moved on i.e she's got her top off(now wearing just bra) touching and feeling is taking place and the lights are off,then the lights and i mean proper full on BIG light are on!!! and me mum is standing there with some laundry!!! it has never been mentioned since but sometimes there is an awkward silence between me and me mum lol
i could have crawled up me own backside that evening
:oops: :oops:

LOL....... maybe you shouldn't have arranged a meet while your parents were around.
they were'nt supposed to be around at the time,it was a coincidence that i'd given me mother a key cos i knew she had done washing for me,it was so she could just dump it in my house while i was supposedly out,,always arrange meets when you can guarantee no parents will arrive unnannounced!!! lol
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redface surprisedops: i'm "sure" my parents know,i had arranged a meet from a different site with a couple quite a bit older than myself,anyway the said couple came over to my place for a kind of social meet(the kind where you think nowt will happen) and things get a little moved on i.e she's got her top off(now wearing just bra) touching and feeling is taking place and the lights are off,then the lights and i mean proper full on BIG light are on!!! and me mum is standing there with some laundry!!! it has never been mentioned since but sometimes there is an awkward silence between me and me mum lol
i could have crawled up me own backside that evening
:oops: :oops:

Ouch, talk about awkward situations.
None of my friends know.
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they were'nt supposed to be around at the time,it was a coincidence that i'd given me mother a key cos i knew she had done washing for me,it was so she could just dump it in my house while i was supposedly out,,always arrange meets when you can guarantee no parents will arrive unnannounced!!! lol

How did you explain that one to your mother then?
I tell no one, at work, at my wife's work, or my relatives.
My swinging friends know.
well i told my mates im bi last year, some werent inmpressed but they are the boring ones who havent been with a woman for a decade nevermind anything else. my real mates dont even mention it and just treat me the same.
its funny a society that says that men should go forth and multiply and woman should be monogomous.....what a load of nonsense.
i find it boring when the press drag up peoples sex lives and make it out to be shocking news, truth is its just cheap titilation for people without the bottle to take a chance in life.
there was that mp at the weekend who was uncovered for going with the rent boy behind his wifes back, thats just another cheating ,lying politician-big deal, but the press had to spice it up for its filthy little readers minds.
No non swing friends know and non of my family know
The only people that know about me are fellow swingers
Bi-Guy-Notts
have told 1frend, but don't think he believed it lol
blimey the east mids massive in full effect in this post. ayup lads. lol
All my close friends know & have done for years - in fact the only person that doesn't know is hubby & the in-laws.... no, make that just hubby redface
Whats to know then ?